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Processing time for spousal visa - Sri Lanka

melbell_28

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Oct 2, 2010
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Visa Office......
Colombo
Job Offer........
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App. Filed.......
4-11-2010
Doc's Request.
10-12-2010
AOR Received.
06-01-2011
File Transfer...
20-12-2010
Med's Done....
28-06-2010
nothing actually.. I had a late breakfast.
 

watnxt

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Feb 28, 2011
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05-10-2010
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10-11-2010
Wow..saving money like this or just fasting to save money?
It is not good for your health Mel. I used to do this and now i face the side effect. So you better eat on time Mel.
So does ur man use Hugtch or Airtel? I heard Aritel have nice deal now. 3.5c/min
 

melbell_28

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Oct 2, 2010
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Doc's Request.
10-12-2010
AOR Received.
06-01-2011
File Transfer...
20-12-2010
Med's Done....
28-06-2010
He hasn't got either one yet!! I keep reminding him, but he's a man.. Nothing gets done unless I do it! hmph!
 

watnxt

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Feb 28, 2011
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This is how many girls a complaining. How come it is other way around between me and my girl? May be i need to change mysefl too keep the word "he's Man" lol
 

melbell_28

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Oct 2, 2010
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Doc's Request.
10-12-2010
AOR Received.
06-01-2011
File Transfer...
20-12-2010
Med's Done....
28-06-2010
oh u just wait and see.. it comes with time.. when the time is right, the roles will flip.. they did with us.. he used to push me around to get things done and now i nag him like an old lady..

our conversations involve me saying things like "i asked you to do this yesterday, why isn't it done??"
 

watnxt

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and my girl says.. "Sorry chellam, I will do it tomorrow". How can I yell at her after call "chellam"? I go from 10 to 0 right after that..lol
 

melbell_28

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Oct 2, 2010
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Doc's Request.
10-12-2010
AOR Received.
06-01-2011
File Transfer...
20-12-2010
Med's Done....
28-06-2010
hahahahaha! that's funny.. well at least u go for 10 to 0. where as i pretty much stick to 10 until i feel comfortable that i have yelled enough and then i say something like "this is such a waste of my time, do whatever you want to do, i'll talk to you later" and click. The next day it's generally done :)

it was a nightmare during the wedding.. i remember on the day of the wedding i went to the hotel to check up on everything and something wasn't done.. this was 5 hours before the wedding.. i called and gave him so much grief for it.. and then he apparently sat their panicking for the next hour until his mom called me to sort it out.

good times :p !!
 

watnxt

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Same here...she kept 10 all the time...i am the one go to 0...lol.
I say same thing too...."talk with you later" and tried to stay at 10..if i do so then she start to says..."you are not same...u changed a lot...am i boring for you now days'? .."r u tired of our relationship'..... instad of hearing these...it is easy to go 0 with out any pain...or tears on the other side to keep their 10.
 

melbell_28

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Oct 2, 2010
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4-11-2010
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10-12-2010
AOR Received.
06-01-2011
File Transfer...
20-12-2010
Med's Done....
28-06-2010
lol.. i think my husband would agree with u on that.. he just lets me rant and then when i'm ok we talk again. cool down takes about 15 mins :p
 

shif00

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Apr 6, 2011
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1-09-10
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17-09-10
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23-10-10
LOL guys.. Mel i guess we have alot in common :p

how r u guys doing?? sorry i dont get to keep in touch, ive been going thru a rough time.. stressing out alot and im not getting any word from the embassy. do u think i should ask my husband to go and check up on his file?
 

melbell_28

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Oct 2, 2010
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10-12-2010
AOR Received.
06-01-2011
File Transfer...
20-12-2010
Med's Done....
28-06-2010
Oh shiff, you should have said something.. you know if there is anyone that gets what your going through its us..

we're here to laugh at the good times and be supportive during the rough patches.. i didnt realize how hard this process was until I was 3 months into it and it just breaks my heart to think that my husband can't be here. it gets a lot harder on the days when I find some random little thing like food or a joke or something lame that I know he would enjoy..

when i go to walmart, i see all these families together and when i'm on the bus, i see swooning couples and it makes me sad. sometimes i just lie there in bed at night and just pray and hope that when i wake up he will be there next to me. that is super sappy. but sometimes, i crave a hug from him or just having him around is comforting you know..

I dunno what kind of a relationship u have with your husband, but mine is my bestie :) so not only am I missing the man I love, but I also miss my best friend :(

But I'm hopeful since he's the everlasting optimist. No matter how hard things get, he always says "baba its just for a little while longer and i'll be there".. lol.. he's been saying this since July 2010!!

Try to remember that at the end of the tunnel, there is a very bright light. I have learned that thanks to this process, hubby and i both treasure what we have so much more.. and we appreciate each other a lot more unlike most normal couples.. So cheer up and look at the bright light ahead :)

Hope this help!

xoxox
Mel.
 

watnxt

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wow...mel....feelingsma...feelings...
Man...mind start to think stupid stuff now days...some time feels...just to club and pass time...sometime like...why not have friend here and talk with her just on the phone....never did any of them bz....other side of mind not allowing me to do it.... all i want now is...just a break...and just to keep my mind away from these worries for while....i used to use work projects....but it is not working any more. Tell me some good way to relax mind....(no prayer, songs or movies pls)
 

melbell_28

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Oct 2, 2010
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Visa Office......
Colombo
Job Offer........
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App. Filed.......
4-11-2010
Doc's Request.
10-12-2010
AOR Received.
06-01-2011
File Transfer...
20-12-2010
Med's Done....
28-06-2010
I watch a random TV series every weekend. Better than movies and continuous too. i just finished leverage 2 weeks ago and watched covert affairs last week and this week it's been white collar :) generally i download!!

but yeah i know what you mean.. :( and i know how you feel too watnxt.. we all go thru it..

hey at least chatting with us is not gonna get you into trouble right ? ;)
 

watnxt

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No mel...it is relaxing... Why took you this long to reply? lol...this tells you how i depend on this forum.
so you should be busy next month with at your new work place. Is it in downtown or out of downtown? I like out of down town..bz i can drive to work...
 

melbell_28

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Oct 2, 2010
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Colombo
Job Offer........
Pre-Assessed..
App. Filed.......
4-11-2010
Doc's Request.
10-12-2010
AOR Received.
06-01-2011
File Transfer...
20-12-2010
Med's Done....
28-06-2010
I went to the chiropractor dude. it's in brampton and i live down town.. well more the west end towards dufferin and queen.. so i found this carpool ground that i'm going to join :)

but yeah, next month is gonna be exhausting!!!