My mother in law is 69. Of course we will support her and she will of course live with us. However, this was not supposed to be a sponsorship application and they seem to be turning it in to a sponsorship application, which is not fair. They are doing it indirectly by putting the onus on the application to prove that arrangements have been made for care and support. Our plan was for my mother in law to stay with us until the end of her life, which we hope is in the far distant future. This is typical government slippery stuff. I have a colleague who also has his mother in law living with him. His wife has a sister and the sister is here with her husband. The husband is a skilled welder and has a job with a good salary. There are no concerns about that part of the family being self-supporting.