there are things in life that you can control (eating, sleeping, working, etc) and other things you can't (sunrise, sunset, traffic jam, two year olds, NDVO making decisions, etc) so go with the flow..this is what I pray when I get frustrated and make sure to keep sharp objects away from me
Lord (ND visa office master/god/mother earth), grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to hide the bodies of those people I had to kill because they pissed me off!