Dear Naomi 39, I am sorry if I have hurt your feelings. However you do not appear to understand that the advice I have given you is designed to help your case. My post contained two important points. (1) if your marriage is invalid, you do not need a divorce. A divorce can only dissolve a valid marriage. You can get validly married to your husband without getting a divorce.(2) If as I understand is the case your husband's proxy marriage was in the DRC and the DRC does not recognize proxy marriages (which is what you are now saying), it seems to me unlikely that Canada will recognize your husband's proxy marriage as valid. As I understand Canadian law _ I have already told you that I am not a Canadian lawyer- Canada recognizes the validity of a proxy marriage if it is recognized by the law of the jurisdiction where the marriage was celebrated. It follows that if the proxy marriage was not valid by the law of DRC, it is not valid either by Canadian law. If you do not understand the argument, check it out with a Canadian lawyer. But do it quickly: there is very little time left.