Actually, Maggy, New Delhi is slightly better than average (16.6 months average, 16 months for NDVO). The process is long and separation is unpleasant, but if this is the most painful thing you've experienced, then you've lived a lucky life. Just remember why you are going through the process and how rewarding it will be when completed. Adversity makes success taste that much sweeter.
First of all, if you are rejected you get $965 back. Second of all, the Sponsor Approval rate is above 97%, so being rejected would be like flipping a coin and calling it correctly 6 times in a row. Drilling down, no sponsor applications relating to Brazil were rejected last year.
An application in Quebec needs only to fill a handful of easy criteria:
- Finished any previous sponsorships
- Not receiving social assistance (age or disability related are OK)
- No outstanding alimony payment orders
- No sexual criminal record
- Not subject to a removal order
- Not in prison
- Your spouse is over 16
- Your spouse must sign a declaration of understanding
If you know the answer to all of these, then the SA process is just a formality and no reason for stress.