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tuyen said:
I decided to take a day to cool off, rather than coming here and telling certain people to go chew on donkey testicles.

I was so unbelievably pissed off when I woke up the other day and noticed the thread was cancelled. What an incredible display of fascism from a site being operated inside a country that has the tenets of free speech and expression as its first and most important part of its constitution. And the whole thing is made all the more supremely idiotic by the fact that this site is owned and operated BY A LAWYER. If the very first paragraph of the Canadian constitution is unfamiliar to a LAWYER operating a site for IMMIGRATION purposes, then let's all just wave the white flag of surrender, because the morons have won.

And no, I'm under no illusions that he's directly involved in the daily operations of this site, but you would THINK that the person(s) he entrusted to do that wouldn't be completely oblivious to the concepts of free speech. The whole thing is buffoonery on a scale of which I've never seen before.
Fine. Wish you weren't sleeping to witness what transpired. It went on to 9 pages and strong and got pulled. Barf.

:-*
 

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kyc221 said:
Koukla: DO IT!!! This is your opportunity to get rid of that *censored word*. You have everyone's support. In all faith, sending this email is the best you can do.
Word.
 

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saint4peace said:
Halfmoon: You did not wash your hair yet ? I thought, you already did. Anyway, my Boss was FARTING, so I left his office now and joined here again. hahahhahahhaha
The men are left to bond.

But I'll be back. 8)
 

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Koukla74 said:
Thank you for the support! The reason she didn't sponsor him was because she married a man from Jamaica herself and that fell apart once he came to Canada. It is clear with the photo's that I have received they are one happy little family.
My question is, does anyone know the process once I make the call, is he forced to leave the country. What are the steps? I have contact a lawyer, which he tells me to keep it civil until he has everything in order.
Personally, I would try to get a restraining order asap. If not, contact your local police station, explain the situation to them, and ask if they can peacefully escort him from your property. That is, as long as it's in your name only. If it's joint, restraining order all the way. I would get one anyway to make sure he can't harass you without consquences.

If you have any family or friends that can stay with you for a few days, that would be good too. If you have any big, mean brothers, hit them up. Offer them some free meals. :)

Unfortunately, he will be able to fight the deportation. A lot of people in that situation go cry refugee (falsely) and weasel their way through the appeals system. Even heard of a guy who purposely knocked up a woman (who didn't want a relationship... no comment) just to try to cry H&C ground about his poor baby needing him. Dude, your baby needs a stable set of parents.... get a life. Anyway, let him fight CIC on deportation and spend HIS money on lawyers. You get your things in order and be rid of him. He had it easy, now it's going to get tough.

If you have any joint account or credit cards, make sure you block or close them and move your money somewhere he can't reach it. I had to do this with my ex-husband. I went to the bank one day and opened a new account. All the money moved over and the officer closed my old account that same day. (My direct deposit paycheck got lost the next week.... but at least my ex didn't get ahold of it.)

Protect yourself. This guy has shown he will use you for whatever it's worth. Do not think he will suddenly have compassion for you. Cheaters are extremely selfish people. They will lie to try to manipulate you every way possible. Be smart, be safe, and be happy.
 

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I dare take a two hour nap and this thread grows by 5 pages!!!!!!!! Hahahaha!

Hello everyone! *bows*

I'm in process to attempt to find a better/different university. Hopefully that will work.

I haven't made dinner yet. I'm starving!
 

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Halfmoon said:
Fine. Wish you weren't sleeping to witness what transpired. It went on to 9 pages and strong and got pulled. Barf.
I managed to save the first two pages (right before I went to bed), but I have no idea what happened after that. It's really sad that there appears to be zero room for humour on this site. In the midst of my rage yesterday, I was --> this close <--- to putting up a new site called "canadianvisawithfreespeech.com" just to shove it in their faces.
 

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amikety said:
I used to work with a woman that did Sign Language interpretation, classes, and presentations as a side job. Her primary job was to teach a special education class. So she had 3 jobs.

Seems someone that speaks a valuable language would have better opportunities. Kind of sad.

Then again, we had a lot of teachers working nights and weekends part time just to make ends meet. Also very sad.
I have her beat, I have five jobs haha. ALL of them on-call, casual. It sucks :(

It's rare to hear someone who knows ASL :D (I'm hearing impaired) so that made my day :D
 

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I wanted to say thanks to everyone for the well wishes. :) Thankfully I met my husband shortly after that loser left and been much happier!

I'm glad Parker :)
 

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saint4peace said:
tuyen: on a serious note. I love you man. You are so effective and quick in action. I do respect human like you. So proactive. Salute and plus 10 points for ya, buddy.
Thanks...I appreciate it. Just doing my part to help someone who clearly has an aberrant leech that's managed to attach itself to her.
 

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tuyen said:
I managed to save the first two pages (right before I went to bed), but I have no idea what happened after that. It's really sad that there appears to be zero room for humour on this site. In the midst of my rage yesterday, I was --> this close <--- to putting up a new site called "canadianvisawithfreespeech.com" just to shove it in their faces.
Then one in particular decided to come onto this thread and have a face off with me. Says I'm the bully behind the bigger bully (er em U) because I suggested making 3 helmets however stood ground for the two threads which by the way remained on top for the whole day then the one got pulled.

**Grunts**
 

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amikety said:
I dare take a two hour nap and this thread grows by 5 pages!!!!!!!! Hahahaha!

Hello everyone! *bows*

I'm in process to attempt to find a better/different university. Hopefully that will work.

I haven't made dinner yet. I'm starving!
There you are.
;D

OK about to go blow dry my hair.
 

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In the name of all that is holy, WITHDRAW YOUR APPLICATION, and do it NOW.

Don't wait even another minute because you said you already filed a YEAR AGO. That means it's going to be approved any day now if you don't step in and do something about it!

The way to cancel is very simple: you send an e-mail to this address (cpcm-extcom @ cic.gc.ca) and tell them to cancel the sponsorship IMMEDIATELY because you have 100% undeniable evidence that he's been using you AND that he's cheating on you. Keep it short and to the point.

Oh hell, never mind, I'll write the letter for you. All you have to do is copy and paste it into your e-mail and then for the love of god, SEND IT.



Name: <write your name here>
Date of Birth: <write your DoB here>
Client ID: <write your UCI client number here>

Thursday, December 6, 2012

To Whom It May Concern:

I am writing to request that my spousal sponsorship application be withdrawn and all further proceedings be cancelled, effective immediately.

I have irrefutable evidence which shows that my husband entered into this marriage under false pretenses in order to commit immigration fraud. I've spoken with an attorney, and have already begun divorce proceedings as a result.

If you require any further information or clarification from me, please contact me at <write your phone number here>.

Thank you for your time and urgent attention to this matter.

Sincerely,

<write your name here>



After you've sent the e-mail, call 1‑888-502-9060, which is the number for Canada Border Services Agency. They're the ones responsible for dealing with - and enforcement of - immigration fraud, including marriages of convenience.

Don't allow this piece of *censored word* to ruin so much as one more minute of your life. Do what needs to be done to get him OUT of Canada, and as far away from you as possible. Yes, I know it hurts and you feel about a hundreds different forms of betrayal and hurt right now, but it's only going to get MUCH worse if he gets his Canadian permanent resident status.

I don't know what to say! Thank you. Thank you for the help! Yes, it hurts but tomorrow is a better day! I have become very numb to the situation. It is funny today, I had a press release and I was asked "Did you have a change in name", I just smiled :D
 

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Koukla74 said:
I don't know what to say! Thank you. Thank you for the help! Yes, it hurts but tomorrow is a better day! I have become very numb to the situation. It is funny today, I had a press release and I was asked "Did you have a change in name", I just smiled :D
It does get easier and you will start to feel again. I wish you luck!!

Good night all. Have a wonderful evening or day! See you all in the morning!

*hugs* to one and all!
 

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Ms Malawi said:
They cant seem to get enough of you halfmoon!

Probably curious when your sending out those heart-shaped memos! :)
;D

Quite proud of them.

Super man is back. We can exhale now....
 

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I don't know what to say! Thank you. Thank you for the help!
Thank me by sending that e-mail, and applying for a restraining order, as Amikety suggested, and cutting all ties with him. Don't even give that slug the opportunity to beg you for forgiveness, because you and I both know it wouldn't be sincere, and it would change absolutely nothing.

And if there's any possibility in your mind - ANY AT ALL - that he could get violent with you, make sure you get someone to stay with you, or you go and stay with someone for the next little while.