Kingston,Jamaica

[jamaicansgirl]

LOL...my husband always says..."if yuh nuh guh inna fowl coupe, fowl cyahh *censored word* pon yuh"

Love it. So true!!

 

[CharlieD10]

So I asked my lawyer if I could go to JA to pick up my daughter and this was her reply.


It would be very difficult for you to bring her back alone. You would have to check with the airline as to what document they want you to have to allow her to board with you. Most likely they would want a sworn affidavit from Dean and her biological mother. Canada would want a sworn statement from Dean and the biological mother. Then when she landed Dean would have to explain to immigration why he did not go and get his daughter. There are also international laws related to children travelling when they are not related to the person. I think that you and Dean should just try and get a cheap last minute ticket if you want to go. Hope this helps.

What do you guys think?

Ahhh, you meant to go and get her in Jamaica! The lawyer is right. While Jamaican airport security won't check for anything, the airline might have a different policy, which you need to confirm before booking the ticket. They MIGHT ask to see that you have permission to take the child abroad with you. Canadian authorities will definitely want to see something that says you have a legitimate link to the child and permission from her parents to travel with her.

 

[Anada]

u know what i find comical....is that even though yea i was woman enough to come on and say 'you know what' sometimes shit aint perfect, these are the realities...i can almost be certain that there are those our there who would bask in its delight...but Karma is a bitch nah mean....can never take joy in another person pain.

 

[Anada]

@ Anada...i wouldnt call it dictating..you're just helping him 2 become a better husband...im glad u really putting ur foot down....dont for a sec feel like ur dictating to him, cuz ur not..if u dont do that, they'll feel like everything is good, and they can do what they want to, when they want to...you have to set some standards in ur relationship sometimes. If he cant follow it...then he shouldnt have gotten in the relationship to begin with.

he WILL follow...im gonna cut him slack...cause he WILL follow. We been long enough now!...im still there on a failry regular....u *censored word*ed up and lied cause u fear my mouth, and cant deal with the bagga cussing...well learn ur lesson u cant put *censored word* past me for one....and TWO. ...remember my hot head next time u feel the need to have hot foots.

i dont put up with ppls *censored word*






im gonna deal with him when i forward - and a couple others too.

 

[Anada]

anyhow...im gonna go back in and delete my posts..cause as much as getting shit off my chest was nice....doesnt make sense to leave it up for a conversation piece for ppl.

i know ive got the glue - perhaps i just need to ease up a lil...after all not i should know better..

This is not new first time roun the thing for me....the parties CAN gwaan but not when im not there, end of story. The passapassa dances...I am that - so i know alllllll about it, but bottom line. I make sacrifice for u, so fukker u better keep on sacrificing for me...u get a one bly .

 

[chickie72]

Great Chickie! Congrats!

Thank you!

 

[chickie72]

OMG OMG OMG
I AM IN TEARS RIGHT NOW CHICKE YOU DONT KNOW HOW HAPPY I AM FOR YOU
BIG CONGRATS MY GIRL
I SWEAR I AM SO HAPPY FOR YOU .....
FRIG DAM IT IS LIKE YOUR ON THE PRICE IS RIGHT
chicki72 come on DOWN.....your the next contestant on the immigration roation


LMAO Thank you Ready, you are the next one in line my girl!

 

[chickie72]

Thnx JamGirl!!!! Congrats chickie72!!! I'm up in northern Ontario.

ready and Dahlia you got me in full giggle this morning!

Good Morning all.!!!

Thanks Ali! Hubby wants to move up north when he returns, my brother lives in Penetanguishene and he just loved it when we went up there so that is where he wants to go.

 

[chickie72]

Whoot whoot CONGRATS Chickie ;D

Thanks! ;D

 

[chickie72]

Congrats Chickie72!!!!!!!!

Thanks, you will be getting yours soon too!

 

[icesfluffy]

ANNDA (i think i spelt that wrong lol ) ..........i also understand the whole lieing thing u should not have to put up with lying or any kinda of betrayal don't get me wrong ... i dont no if im being the devils advocate in this but i heard you throw around the trust word alot but it does not seem u put alot of trust in to your man to behave him self when he go's out..... i realize ever relationship is diffrent and has curtin boundrys that they have set up for there relationship to work...... but i think thats not some thing so crazy to draw an application (cuz your spouse had fun with out you)...... you should always think with ur heart and not anger....... i go out like once or twice a month with my girls to party my husband has faith in me that im not goin to look no one and that im really just doin a 2 step with my girls at the end of the convo he always says "alright have fun drive carful and text me when you get home so i no ur safe" witch is normally 4am..... i dont think you should ever use immagration like this against someone....... you will have lil and big aurguments and fights for the rest of ur married life thats just how shit goes your goin to have high ups and low downs but you work it out and have the good way out the bad ......you cant just always throw in the towel when you have a ruff patch you have to think rashional ...it is just one of those jobs that is never done you have to constuntly work on a marrage how do u think some people stay married for like 20+ years it is not easy and a lot of hard work..... i understand its hard but dont take out what happen to ur past relationships on your new relationships they had nothing to do with it....(thats what i had to tell my self and it works i have bin thru some shit but i cant take it out on my husband cuz he has nothing to do with it) give a little trust and faith in ur man he should give faith and trust in you also .......go out have fun with ur girls drink ,laugh but now you just conduct your self as a married women and not a single women you act as if ur spouse were right beside you...... its ok to have fun when ur spouse is NOT around that also shows a healthy relationship

 

[chickie72]

LOL...my husband always says..."if yuh nuh guh inna fowl coupe, fowl cyahh *censored word* pon yuh"

my hubby's favorite quote "Haggle donkey folla cane bump, go pound" LMAO

 

[AliCatShaw]

Thanks Ali! Hubby wants to move up north when he returns, my brother lives in Penetanguishene and he just loved it when we went up there so that is where he wants to go.

That's a beautiful area!!! I'm still about 6-7 hr drive north from there, in Chapleau

 

[chickie72]

That's a beautiful area!!! I'm still about 6-7 hr drive north from there, in Chapleau

holy crap that is far! Yeah sorry not coming to visit ya lol

 

[AliCatShaw]

LMAO!!!! I understand