CharlieD10
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- 15-02-2011
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- 09-05-2011
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- 17-01-2011, 08-03-2012
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- 30-3-2012
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- 13-04-2012
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- 06-06-2012
Stereotyping is a part of life, and nowhere do we all see it as much as when we get into this process. People look at you differently, those of you who are our Canadian spouses, wondering what on earth you can all be thinking, to marry someone from so far away, and how you could possibly be thinking that this will ever work and surely you all know you're just being taken for a ride because everyone wants to come to Canada!
They look at us differently, your Jamaican spouses. They think just how devious and desperate we must be, to work so hard to convince those of you who marry us that we love you and will be true to you. They wonder just how good of a liar we must all be, and speculate on the circumstances of our lives in Jamaica that surely must be the driving forces behind our decisions to marry and move away from there.
People will talk. And usually those with nothing constructive to say are the ones with the loudest mouths. You have to live your life, and expect people to talk and all you can do about them is ignore them and get on with your lives. Spend too much time getting wired about other people's opinions and you will waste precious time for other activities.
They look at us differently, your Jamaican spouses. They think just how devious and desperate we must be, to work so hard to convince those of you who marry us that we love you and will be true to you. They wonder just how good of a liar we must all be, and speculate on the circumstances of our lives in Jamaica that surely must be the driving forces behind our decisions to marry and move away from there.
People will talk. And usually those with nothing constructive to say are the ones with the loudest mouths. You have to live your life, and expect people to talk and all you can do about them is ignore them and get on with your lives. Spend too much time getting wired about other people's opinions and you will waste precious time for other activities.