Thank you. Funny you say that, his name is Nathan and the meaning of his name is "gift from God".Divinity said:
good morning everyone hope everyone has a good weekend.shortyp2000 said:
I try and not bite when they provoke but I guess I get my frustrations out too. I am not saying there is here...but on other threads. And in the past this one has had a few. What is wrong with ppl to sink to that level of hurting and provoking emotions that are we hold dear to ourselves. As for me I cannot wait to say add me to sheet. 5 more weeks or so.
Completely agree... Waiting is so hard, special occasions, Holidays, even weekends feel like every other day. Feeling demotivated, I just put my package in this week so I have a ways to go... But will make it throughthe mrs campbell said:good morning! just a random statement. But there are always trolls lurking about.
lets continue to be nice; as we are on this journey together and support thru good and not so good days, as we will become family joined thru our mutually shared goal of reuniting with our loved ones.
wishing u a beauty of a day.
I think of him in everything I do. actually visualize him. and at the risk of sounding cray...don't laugh but I call out to him like he is in the kitchen.canjamdiva said:
Completely agree... Waiting is so hard, special occasions, Holidays, even weekends feel like every other day. Feeling demotivated, I just put my package in this week so I have a ways to go... But will make it through
girl you're not cray lol. i totally can relate the amount of joy your significant other brings to you its hard to go through the days without them. but i have to second your statement about men in Canada especially men in Toronto well the ones ive encountered they dont know the fiurst thing about commitment and are selfish. that what makes this process worth it. knowing i have a lifetime of being with someone that understands the value of love and a commitment. i literally named my car after my husband lol whatever keeps us connected to the ones we love does not make us crazy.the mrs campbell said:
not crazy indeed. I did my fair share of dating in Toronto and my ego kept taking hits, all the guys I met seemed to ask the same questions, "what do you do?" , how often do you go to the gym…can you cook..what can you cook...why aren't you married? OMG, I was so annoyed and frustrated…I spent my early days in school, once I got my career settled, I got sick and had to have surgery…uh sorry dumb a$$, I was working on surviving instead of hitting the club scene to find a man who wanted me for my a$$ets… when life finally settled down for me, I was a bit past my prime and encountering all these men who made me feel like something was wrong with me. SO ANNOYING.HisWifey30 said:
were looking into him coming the second week in October . I have a Condo on bottom road that I want him to try to rent out before he leaves but if he can't I will just have to get a real estate agent to assist, I just felt more comfortable Renting it out to someone either my husband or I have met . And sorry I misunderstood it is conjugal relationships the year.. ALSo ALL WOMEN/MEN SPONSORING THERE SPOUSE MAKE SURE IF YOU ASSISTED YOUR SPOUSE ON HIS PR APPLICATION THAT HE READS IT ALL THOROUGHLY AS KINGSTON IS DOING PHONE INTERVIEWS NOW TO HELP DECIDE WHETHER OR NOT THEY WILL WAIVE THE INTERVIEW .. I am sure it is not done in all cases but just make sure your spouse is prepared in case he does receive a phone call from the embassy to confirm some questions ., my husbands best friend got his call from KINGSTON yesterday and now he is all stressed out worried there is gonna be a problem as he stated the reason her child doesn't live with her was because children's aid apprehended the child from the fathers house , when this isn't what is written in his application . In fact his wife wrote that she didn't know the child's father .. They ended the conversation telling him they would consider whether or not to waive a interview .he said he was caught off guard because he didn't know they would call and ask questions on the phone which hopefully doesn't effect there case negatively.. SO BE PREPARED IN CASE YOU ARE PHONED AND THEY CALL FROM A UNKNOWN NUMBER SO IF YOU USUALLY DONT ANDWER UNKNOWN OR PRIVATE NUMBERS IT IS ESSENTIAL TO ANSWRT THEM WHILE GOING THROUGJ THE IMMIGRATION PROCESSthe mrs campbell said:Thats the first I've heard of being together a year to sponsor. Would that not be those in conjugal relationships. I had registered on this forum soon after I married and saw many people come and go. Some that have become my friends outside the forum. My point is, I am somewhat familiar with the process, but still seek guidance not necessarily opinions. I choose not to guess or assume anything, whether my file contains enough or whether the amount of times I travel is acceptable.
The majority of my family is ok however there are a few that are totally against it and constantly are negative. My family members are Jamaican so they will try to tell Me that they know it's for papers and that's where they spent the majority of there life and blah blah blah ... I just keep myself distanced from all the negative people because if I listened to them I would be unhappy .. While yes this does happen it isn't always the case. Since the beginning I have known all my husbands friends and family and there's times I'm left alone with them all so I know If he was hiding stuff he would never freely leave me alone with all his family or friends .. Nobody knows our marriages like we do and I know for a fact my husband loves me and it's not about papers . I could have chosen to live there but I wouldn't want to ; maybe just for the winters lol ... It's terrible that immigration has the fate of our marriages at there hands because how can one really determine what is genuine from what isn't ?? And unfortunately some genuine relationships ever get turned down because of stereotyping .. For example if there is a 10+ year age difference now with the woman being older they will scrutinize the application a lot more than my case .. I'm 29 my husband is 33... My husband also is a hard worker and has great work ethics , a lot of Jamaicans do i don't know why they have a reputation for being lazy it's not the case ... My husband has several things he did for money and 1 thing he was doing was spear fishing and going to nightsea... I didn't want him to do that anymore because the most he would get for going for 6 hours was $3000 and just twice a week he would go . It scared me shitless with him being in the ocean nighttime as I wouldn't even go up to my knees in the night so I asked him to stop . I know it's hard for him to make money legally without a great education or doing something illegal so I offer to help him out financially from time to time so I can have peace of mind knowing he is safe and a shark isn't gonna bite off his leg .. He's brave and some people look down on it that I help him out financially from time to time but we're married and I think it's totally acceptable , same way it's gonna n acceptable for him to help me out from time to time when he moves here ..the mrs campbell said:
@Paula-T...If it is not going too much into your hubby's friends biz and if u do know...can u share with us at what point your hubby's friend is with his application..meaning, did he send in a few months ago, in process, asked to bring in docs, has he sent in or has been asked to pay his RPRF, send in pp pics etc...initial review? Just wanted an idea thanks.....Paula_T said:
Kingston began processing there application a week after mine .. The last correspondence they got between them and Immigratuon was the same as my last response "your application is in a final processing query for a VO to determine wether or not they will require a interview or waive it ..HubbYsWiFeY said:
