Well said mama Reds.. miss you! don't you miss the old days when we all cried together, celebrated together, laughed together.. when members cared, got together and sincerely wanted the best for each other. It was not that long ago.. Can happen again. This love boat often feel like its sinking but we can/should depend on a joke, a song, an advice to pick us up.. The music, joke, announcement, social commentary helps to pass the time. Ladies and gents take it easy with each other, like my friend ready says take a chill pill peeps. I know when the sugar stick is absent sometimes the girls get uptight... it will be all over soon, relax and be good to each other.. We are all in this together, those of us who are with our partner can still offer some advice about the process and beyond.. the period of adjustment.