awww chilld of God...sorry to hear you are feeling this way. This process can be very tormenting at times especially not really knowing where you stand. You just have to keep reminding yourself that this is a minor stumbling block and better days are ahead. Sooner or later you will be in wifey's arms and this immigration journey will be nothing but distant memory...hang in there my brotherchilld of God said:honestly... I'm stressed out :'( :'( :'( but i'm hanging in there....sigh :'(