Lol, that is soooo funny Najj, I was thinking the same thing..ie: cards...I have sent him a couple but he doesnt like the idea of me spending money on things like that, its tight enough already, but this is a good idea will have him get some, sign them and I will show those as what he has sent over the years...I do wish I had more pics, but, only being there once, and not having a camera, have to accept what I have....as for western union trans, anything I have ever sent over the years he has kept the receipts, so we have those as well as when I print out the messages we have sent on face book, the texts we send and all the calls he has made to me since I got my phone in April, the old one just stopped working...thanks to those who helped me out with the medical part, I couldnt understand how this medical would be so much more than an average one, 100 canadian, but now can rest a little easier.