Amen FLK! Its people like you I would keep as close friends...positive people seeking for elevation and more knowledge...i could relate in so many ways to what you just said. Girl, i've seen alot in this thing they call "life" where marriages are concerned..and I also see where disrespect and bad attitude, and negative attitude towards a man can get you...I've seen it in the life of my loved ones, and i recognized it and said to myself, I reallyyy dont want to take the same road they've taken, cuz nothing gud came out of it..I want to be the dream girl my husband wants to me..thats my goal