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Anyhow, I decided I'm going to go get my "Herrr" did today. So called my stylist and booked an appointment. Can't sit around and mope. He does enough of that for the both of us for 10 lifetimes.
 

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im not in to this new age think like a man hogwash...half those women who try think like a man - have no man.

i dont want to think like no bloodclot man.....but press a button...........and i will get angry like one.

For me: being taken serious is extremely important>> to the extreme. My husband already knows my head can get hot, as can his, but he NOW knows im worse.

As a matter of fact he told me when i was down there that he has no idea i could cuss like that....and neither did i really ;D ;D............ i think the parish heard my wrath dont take me for some effing simpleton, based on the color of my skin......i went on flip mode, and didnt stop. Everyone got *censored word*.

few mins later i went to the shop, shop keeper is like : sometimes its healthy to leggo of emotions, i simply said i dont wanna talk about it....everything criss....he said 'i like that'

Few days later same shop keeper said he wished him and his wife, have what me and mine have....cause though i tore a strip off him, but night - we there hugging up in the middle of the road, rocking under moon light, like no ones even there, but all were there.

My Husband is the type of man who will not tolerate disrespect from anyone.....but he was so speechless, all he could do was sit there as i went wild.

i think part of that were suppressed emotions, and all emotions - that i had recently endured, but I unleashed the beast, to sayyy the least.









End result, i think my flip out gained me nuff respect....cause first time ever he aunt actually came and offered me food, then said not to be a stranger.

I told the whole place what i thought lol.....ppl hide in the house - his sister walked by....and very quickly.... :D
 

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Halfmoon said:
Anyhow, I decided I'm going to go get my "Herrr" did today. So called my stylist and booked an appointment. Can't sit around and mope. He does enough of that for the both of us for 10 lifetimes.

lol mi here stuck at work, wish i had day off to do as i please too...

oh i do slightly miss the Public Servant days....hookie was so easy.
 

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Anada said:
lol mi here stuck at work, wish i had day off to do as i please too...

oh i do slightly miss the Public Servant days....hookie was so easy.
I'm actually at work Anada. I'm going after work :) But I as you can see, I'm not very productive today. At least I can close my office door and nobody bothers me. :p
 

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Halfmoon said:
I'm actually at work Anada. I'm going after work :) But I as you can see, I'm not very productive today. At least I can close my office door and nobody bothers me. :p
i dont have an office door, but i do have a do not disturb face LOL
 

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Anada said:
i dont have an office door, but i do have a do not disturb face LOL
Ladies you're making my work day go by soooo nicely this morning! You're way too funny! I'm also unproductive this morning because I'm busy reading and responding to posts here...but I think it's a necessity for my mental and spiritual health!
 

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His cousin, this one in particular mix up male got it too....

but with him i know he HATED the fact some white woman put him in his place, HE HATED the fact that he had to hear me out and couldnt even tell me to fukk off...if i was any other woman...he prolly would have knocked me out - but couldnt :p

My man said i had the right...i am the wife, and he wont try stop me....

Glad some ppl know, just cause i aint there - doesnt mean im not. 2. Dont everrrrrrrrr think for a second i wont fly down in a heartbeat....in a heartbeat to sort ppl out. Even if for a day...TRY ME.

Same mothereffer who thinks he can kick my dog.....same mother effer who thinks cause im not there, its a free for all.... well: he now knows better.

He was the primary source - of the blow out. Dont ever think you can smile with me....like i actually believe it. PUNK
 

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http://youtu.be/tfRxcCEJ0Lo


thought i would share this link with you all ladies hubby sent it to me this morning ....to listen to
 

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ready_fi_move_on said:
http://youtu.be/tfRxcCEJ0Lo


thought i would share this link with you all ladies hubby sent it to me this morning ....to listen to
:D


a true ting
 

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Hh5beLS1wM

here's a next one i ♥

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kiJ2kKM4nKg

^ that one 2.



Thanks for switching up the meds Anita lol Love my love tunes, to make me think about the one i love.
 

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firstladyking said:
Okay, so far I've got RFMO and FW did I miss anyone else?
I would like to come but it will have to be a different venue (cheaper) so maybe next time. LOL I am a poor, poor woman trying to get my hubby home and can't afford a venue so pricey. Let me know if you change places and I will definitely make it! Thanks
 

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Good morning forum family, man you ladies ago wann about your men. Now, I'll gife you a man's prespective about the whole getting mad ting. You know when woman get vex at her man you wondering what goes on in his mind. We think:
1. you know, she's not very cute when she vex's
2. I wonder if she'll be done soon, need a beverage
3. I wonder if her mom's yells at her dad in such a way
4. I guess sex is out for today, maybe try for a bj later
5. Guess I'm cooking, again
6. Can't remember what she's mad at me for but not gonna ask
7 Just say you understand when she comes up for air

You see, we tune you out when you start vexxing, want us to hear, keep the tone down and talk to the point, not bury it with a bunch of meaningless inuendo's ;D ;D ;D
 

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canuck0469 said:
Good morning forum family, man you ladies ago wann about your men. Now, I'll gife you a man's prespective about the whole getting mad ting. You know when woman get vex at her man you wondering what goes on in his mind. We think:
1. you know, she's not very cute when she vex's
2. I wonder if she'll be done soon, need a beverage
3. I wonder if her mom's yells at her dad in such a way
4. I guess sex is out for today, maybe try for a bj later
5. Guess I'm cooking, again
6. Can't remember what she's mad at me for but not gonna ask
7 Just say you understand when she comes up for air

You see, we tune you out when you start vexxing, want us to hear, keep the tone down and talk to the point, not bury it with a bunch of meaningless inuendo's ;D ;D ;D

No thanks....in some cases, a Blanket bi**hout is Required lmao

and ive been told im even more cute when im bexed, cause im small..... :mad: :mad: :mad: all the more reason to make myself taken that much more serious!!

i do agree....not ALL disagreements, are to be handled in that fashion: no way.....BUT there are always exceptions to every rule.
 

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I would suggest anyone to read the book I suggested. No one was more rude than me, trust me. Keep an open mind and ask yourselves if this bickering is worth it. This is supposed to be your other half and if you wouldn't want anyone dealing with you like that then maybe it's time to rethink your strategy. He has ears, and doesn't need to be spoken to like a child, it belittles him. You may feel better, but better about what? It's no different than when a man hurts us, we may forgive but the wounds run deep, long gone are the days when we as women think of our men as heartless, having no feelings. We need to connect more with them, try to understand them and uplift them. One thing men need, is a women who will stand by him no matter what, I'm not saying to follow him over the cliff, but allow him to take his place and don't be too judgemental and say things you can't take back. It doesn't make us look any stronger to yell and cuss.

That's my two sense worth, coming from a lady who cussed herself into hypertension in my first marriage, trust me ladies it can have far reaching medical and emotional implications. I wonder were we learned how to treat men like this?