Kingston,Jamaica

[Anada]

any man that doesnt want to be spoken to as a child, ought not behave like one.

i wont pussy foot around my feelings to spare his, when obviously mine hadnt been taken in to consideration, by the same persons, whom i was upset with.

to sit there silently and bite my tongue is not, and never has been part of my nature. If there wasnt something that triggered the upset, then WHY would i have got upset in the first place?

I respect my husband, and dont need a novel to understand how to respect my man....and whether i read the book or not, in the heat of the moment, im gonna be ME - not the author. lol

Cussing, and yelling - is not required: IN MY situation, IT WAS a requirement, NOT because I WANTED to, but because my heart and soul made me. End of story.

 

[ready_fi_move_on]

I would like to come but it will have to be a different venue (cheaper) so maybe next time. LOL I am a poor, poor woman trying to get my hubby home and can't afford a venue so pricey. Let me know if you change places and I will definitely make it! Thanks

i am going have to agree with chickie on this one .... right now things are really tight with since hubby got let go from his job being the only income for an international family of 4 has me stretched thin.... plus with my drivers licence being suspended (loong story) this place at the moment is out of league

 

[Anada]

i do not believe in mistreating a man...

but make not the mistake, that because i am not there, that I am not in fact there, not when i live my life, and spend my money, and exercise my resources - to make a life with you.

#reality check....u never have seen me that angry - dont make it happen again.

 

[Anada]

i am going have to agree with chickie on this one .... right now things are really tight with since hubby got let go from his job being the only income for an international family of 4 has me stretched thin.... plus with my drivers licence being suspended (loong story) this place at the moment is out of league

i third the motion.

 

[Anada]

Ill ive by all that when he gets there.....


not as long as we're an airplane ride apart - and he's got little lose men for cousins roaming around fi wi yard like lose mongrels, with no manners.

 

[ready_fi_move_on]

lol u all are killing me today i can't keep up
honestly think that most of this is just venting talks
none of us are there to see what is really going on
this place is a good place to let your frustrations out
lol you all gots me laughing hard

 

[Anada]

.............................u should b able to trust your man....and I c it as everything takes practice, so people dont just change overnight...its a gradual thing.

this was not about trust - just sheltering some effed up kinda homeless, who put himself in that place with ZERO respect!!!


Anyhowwwwwwwww - different strokes for different folks....one major blow up, the only major blow up, isnt gonna make me seek out Doctor Phil, i made my point clear.

 

[Anada]

you see PPL all have there ups and downs in relationships - which can be particularly challenging to deal with when overseas.

Im secure,and confident enough in my marriage to say HEYYYYYYYY some days my man drives me crazy, and HEYYY some days i drive him crazy.....but u know what....the SITUATION is CRAZYYYYYYYYY.

and all the more power to those who go through it with little to no woes....but i been dealing with woes and blows for a straight year, from EVERY direction imaginable lol - just all came out in one shot ;D

 

[ready_fi_move_on]

http://youtu.be/ez6EWtQE01Y

OHHHHH LAWDDDD GHOST GOTS WE WATCHING THE RAIN AND BAWLING MY EYES OUT RIGHT NOW

 

[Anada]

NO im venting - and it actually started out as light hearted venting - up until the 'what not to dos'....

discussion done, cause PMS starting to ride mehhhhh and im not in the mood to get over sensitive and lash out on any persons, who have popped in with the holier than thou issh. ;D



im a very down to earth person, so i likes reasoning with down to earth ppl - shit aint always a bed of roses, such is life.

 

[Anada]

I totally understand Anada...thats why I try "NOT TO" hold onto things for days upon days...if there's a problem I fix it that same day...when we hold onto thins for long periods of time, when everything finally starts coming out, its like a bomb....just explodes into something bigger than what it wouldve been if we fixed things right away,

NO i dont think u do understand lol

sorry i cant fix having fought this year with the world to be with my man, i cant fix the relationships that have dissolved with ppl as a result. i cant fix the fact i buried my Grandmother who raised me, 6 days prior to my blow up - i cant fix A LOT - ....some things can NOT be fixed....


I now regret having a Woman to woman discussion on real *censored word* - with ppl who think they have all the answers. lol


till u walk a mile in a persons, shoes.....ya dig


Anyhow....couples are couples.....everyone, WILL at one point in their lives have their DAY - YEESH!!!!



i are outta here, everyone else can link me on FB!!!

starting to get annoyed now.

 

[FaithfullyWaiting]

http://youtu.be/ez6EWtQE01Y

OHHHHH LAWDDDD GHOST GOTS WE WATCHING THE RAIN AND BAWLING MY EYES OUT RIGHT NOW

Now why did I go and listen to this song now???? Oh boy...I wish he was here :-[

 

[ready_fi_move_on]

;D ;D ;D ;D YELLOW MONKEYS ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D

 

[ready_fi_move_on]

;D ;D ;D ;D YELLOW MONKEYS ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D

LOL SORRY THATS MY REACTION TO ACWARD SITUATIONS LOL

 

[Anada]

LOL SORRY THATS MY REACTION TO ACWARD SITUATIONS LOL

good was just about to ask where that derived from!!

thats why i HATE this message board bullshits - u cant ever fully free up and talk di tings...cause then next thing u know everyone trying to have this therapeutic approach, like it could never happen to them lol ;D