Thank you very much, everyone
My husband was born in Iraq and this is his country. You all are aware of the situation there. They fled the country in mass groups, during and shortly after the invasion. They then had to survive and had to make their ways according to and depending on the available options. If he stayed there or if he followed the rules there or somewhere else he could have ended in graveyard, like millions of Iraqis who lost their life. No need for further details but my instinct is clear and my heart is clearer. I could not go to marry in USA for reason explained earlier. He could not claim for refugee in border knowing that he could have been detained and returned back to US, and who know what could have happened after that.
I have already taken some advices and consultation from within the local community. We have made the decision that he should exit Canada soon and be back. He will try Jordan or Egypt first. If he is accepted there then we will be fine. If not he will make his way to Iraq, taking the risk and knowing that every human will die at one specific moment of a day, a minute and a second. We will start apply this plan from as early as tomorrow morning.
New worries were revealed:
My Ex husband has been watching our news and situation. He is still living in our neighbourhood. He, I strongly believe, is the one who was using me. Once I arrived to Canada to live with him I discovered too many things that he was hiding from us. Simply and to make the long story short, he was not honest. I signed a blank document for him that I did not want any of his properties or belongings. I was aware of my entitlement and rights but I just wanted to live in peace, to protect my young daughter and even go back to my native country. I did not go to the welfare system, though he threw us out in minus 25 C. I lived for 18 months on student loan that I am paying back right now. The undertaking period has expired last November. So he should be happy and leave us alone. I have now got concrete evidence that my Ex has (very recently) reported my current husband to the immigration and other relevant organization. I am scared to death right now. I hope we will manage to get him out of Canada soon.