Black-berry, although I`m new on the forum, I`ve read your posts and I feel for you. I wish all turn out well at the end. See the interview or your tranfer as a chance to have a more personal contact with them. Sometimes to speak for yourself worth more than thousands of proof and information sent to them. You have nothing to fear from, keep your chin up- you have children with your husband, a long marriage what could be a better proof of a genuine relationship?
I had and still have many hesitations after sending my application in, wheter I did well or could I sent even more evidence, whether I should have waited a little longer... I`ve met my husband online too, I`m from Europe and was planning to come to Canada to visit friends and study for a while when I met him on a friendship site. When I figured I would like to stay longer, I had the biggest suprise. I walked in the place I work at the moment too, talked to the manager and she said not to go anywhere, she got me to the owner and he offer me a job right there. I couldn`t believe at first because I knew how hard is to get a job or a work-permit. After getting all my papers, my work-permit was issued at the US border. I still wonder I did it right to choose this way other than sending my papers to CIC, but I talked to the Call-centre and the agent said I have the right to go to the border. I`ve never been so nervous in my whole life than there, the border officer was really nice after a few questions. We drove 15 hours to there from Northern Alberta, in december, in the middle of a huge blizzard. The officer at the end was like we are crazy to did this ride but she rarely meets such nice people as we are. Sigh...I could work from then. I was an interior designer at home, here I`m `just` a waitress, but who cares. We got married in 2009 june and I wanted to send our application in sept. 2009, then it turn out I`m expecting. I was worried what if they will see it as we are having a baby to help our case. Reality is, I was told to have less than 5% chance to have a child, so I was on the cloud 9, he is a real miracle baby. I waited until 2010 june after he was born to get the medical done and send my papers in. Even if I`m worried, don`t see the ending of the process, I know I have nothing to fear from. I chose a man for life, he is Canadian, so I chose Canada with him. I respect this country, I`d like to be a good addition to it and at the first time I came here, I never tought I`m going to stay. I`ve learnt here in the last 2,5 years that you can overcome the impossible, that we are stronger than we believe. So hang in there!
I have a question as well. My passport will expire 2011 aug. I cannot extend it through my embassy, because my country changed passport-format this june which has fingerprint in. The embassies are not supplied with machines, the only way right now is to travel home and get it done there. I have to renew my work permit by december and can get the new one until august only. If I got my first stage is it safe to travel back home? Especially if that`s the reason? I haven`t applied for an OWP yet but I`d like to later with a new passport...