Love_Young said:
Aww Black-Berry, I feel your pain. I mean mine hasn't been sent there but I can feel the nerves.
Even if you have an interview it doesn't just mean they doubt your relationship. They may not. They may just want some clarification on something from you. Use this to your advantage though. They are giving you another shot to prove your relationship. Start gathering all your evidence from when you sent the application and since sending the application. Gather more pictures, proof of continuing your life together, write about more you have done together as a family since then, get more support letters, copy more bills, cards, etc.
There are interview questions on here as well so you can start practicing together. Re-read your application because if they give you an interview they will ask you about things that you put in your application. You can do this. You are one tough cookie. Always remember that no matter what, did you read that? NO MATTER WHAT, no one can tear your love apart. The only people that can do that is the two of you. I would order your FOSS notes now and find out why you were transferred. I am sorry my dear but just know that you aren't ever alone and we are all here for you. I promise you.
I don't want to get your hopes up but it seems you have been transferred without AIP. Usually if it says that without seeing decision made then it means no decision was made about your application. I would call CIC in the morning though and find out if it was transferred without AIP and also find out what your local CIC office is. Good luck Black-Berry. We all love you and care for you. As I said we are here for you no matter what. We will help you get through this.
Thank you love_young.. You brought tears to my eyes. I feel the love here for sure!. I feel encouraged and your words are comforting.It means alot to me during this time. I am not worried anymore. our relationship is 250 percent genuine!. Nothing or o one can change that ever!. I didnt give very much evidence when i sent in my application because dh and i didnt think that we needed to "try" hard to [prove our relationship. Our marriage was very small. Four people came to the wedding and ten people came to our err.. reception. my dress was not white, it was coral!.
Also. dh and i are 17 years apart. he is older. he is white, i am black. also, every time we travel, we have raised eyebrows . in and out of canada, I am used to it.
Ever since i put in my application, We have done a lot of stuff here!> We have a mortgage together, we have alot of money in the bank together which we used to get the mortgage. His daughter (different mother) i became her legal guardian since she was 8. She is 100 percent white!. which man will let someone he doesnt love become a legal guardian to his child?
All our pictures together are family. me, him, the kids, we have never had a romantic get away because we dont have a babysitter and we prefer having our kids with us.
I was very honest in my application!. i never lied about anything. I met dh on the internet (hehehehe maybe thats what they doubt!) on yahoo messenger!!. Yes but its true!. dh and i told the exact truth!!. we were like... if we lie, they may catch us in our lie so we told the truth. I dont feel like i need to practice anything. as my application was 100 percnt hionest. whether they believe it or not will not change a thing. i feel like i have no fight left in me. butn hubby said he will fight this tooth and nail until the cows come home!. her said they cant deny him his right and his love. he is a very old-fashioned romantic!. He loves me and i love him, that is all that counts. I will leave the rest up to God. No man or woman can separate us. We said those vows on our wedding day !. whatever clarification they need. I am preparing.
