I too am at wits end but whatever the reasons for the loooooooong delays in processing, CIC is keeping it a secret. I have been thinking it's some sort of cruel test. The longer they make it, the fewer people will make it through (or even apply in the first place). And it's not just testing the resolve of applicants, but the strength of spousal relationships! We're fighting more than ever, thanks CIC. At least they're granting OWPs before 1st stage approval! I'm thankful for that. Hopefully it comes soon and I won't slip any further into poverty. Whatever the reason, I would sure like more in the way of updates or transparency. I just passed 9 months since applying, only 8 or so months to stage 1 approval. awesome.
I'm sure lots of you will relate when I say that this process has turned me from a relaxed easy-going guy to a nervous, anxious and quite depressed person, my partner too. I think not being able to work is causing me to feel depressed and the finances are causing huge strains on our relationship. We can't move forward with our life: forget buying a house, my car is on it's last legs, we live in her parent's basement because we can't afford rent in Toronto. Ahhhh! And I'm pretty sure our income is OK too. I'm sure there's a lot of people in this situation that are doing worse than us.
I would welcome any advice for finding peace with the limbo. I come to this board to feel normal, to feel less alone and to stay well informed too of course. Thanks to all of you for those things!