This is more of a rant than anything else.
My family doesn't like my husband very much. We lived with my mother and step father for 6 months after we were married. My mother tried endlessly to get me to not marry my husband. She thought he wasn't "good enough" and she thought I could do better. My step father even said if I went through with marrying him, that I would break my mother's heart. Clearly, they didn't understand that we were in love and wanted to be together. We got married November 2011 and lived with them till April 2012 when a huge argument caused my step father to kick us out of the house 1 week before we planned on moving into our own place. My step father was horribly mean during the fighting calling me all sorts of names and my mother stood by and said nothing. We never told them about my husband's immigration status as I felt their judgement would be way too harsh and that they would be really single my husband out from the rest of the family. Well we eventually told them and that's exactly what has happened. To the point that my own mother went to a medium/physic and apparently they medium told her that I will have a son with my husband then we will lose a baby and then he is going to leave me and I will remarry and have a daughter with my new husband. My mother knows I struggle with infertility and I found it really hard when she told me this. She is keeping her distance and wont form a relationship with my husband because of this.
Fast forward to October 2013 my husband and I share a Facebook page, and someone started cyber stalking us, it was bad! They stole our pictures created a fake pages, started harassing my family, said really horrible things about me on this page, accusing my husband of cheating on me with them, that this person was pregnant for him and everything. But they knew so much intimate details about my family it was just too weird that it was some random person doing this. This cyber stalking went on for about a month and a half and my entire family was in an uproar because they were all being harassed they all blamed my husband saying he was cheating and this was the result. Eventually it all died down. My older sister just a couple weeks ago admitted to me that she thinks my younger sister was behind the fake page. I was talking to my husband about the possibility of it being my younger sister that was doing this to us, and he confronted her. She told him she didn't like him because he is "illegal" NO IDEA what that even means lol and he isn't even! anyway she denied having anything to do with it and then turned around and threatened me saying she has no problem going to the police and saying he threatened her family (which he never did) she said I am going to regret defending my husband because I'm going to lose my family over it. Its just sad, very sad situation. My husband is a great guy, he is funny, and caring. Loves doing things for others. He is a people pleaser. I find it heart breaking that they've never given him a fair chance. I feel badly for my husband because he is judged so harshly by people that don't even care enough to get to know the real him. Exactly what I was trying to protect him from, is exactly what happened. He doesn't deserve the harshness, its breaking my heart.
Sorry this is so long, but truly no one else besides you fine group of people can truly relate to where I'm coming from on some level
My family doesn't like my husband very much. We lived with my mother and step father for 6 months after we were married. My mother tried endlessly to get me to not marry my husband. She thought he wasn't "good enough" and she thought I could do better. My step father even said if I went through with marrying him, that I would break my mother's heart. Clearly, they didn't understand that we were in love and wanted to be together. We got married November 2011 and lived with them till April 2012 when a huge argument caused my step father to kick us out of the house 1 week before we planned on moving into our own place. My step father was horribly mean during the fighting calling me all sorts of names and my mother stood by and said nothing. We never told them about my husband's immigration status as I felt their judgement would be way too harsh and that they would be really single my husband out from the rest of the family. Well we eventually told them and that's exactly what has happened. To the point that my own mother went to a medium/physic and apparently they medium told her that I will have a son with my husband then we will lose a baby and then he is going to leave me and I will remarry and have a daughter with my new husband. My mother knows I struggle with infertility and I found it really hard when she told me this. She is keeping her distance and wont form a relationship with my husband because of this.
Fast forward to October 2013 my husband and I share a Facebook page, and someone started cyber stalking us, it was bad! They stole our pictures created a fake pages, started harassing my family, said really horrible things about me on this page, accusing my husband of cheating on me with them, that this person was pregnant for him and everything. But they knew so much intimate details about my family it was just too weird that it was some random person doing this. This cyber stalking went on for about a month and a half and my entire family was in an uproar because they were all being harassed they all blamed my husband saying he was cheating and this was the result. Eventually it all died down. My older sister just a couple weeks ago admitted to me that she thinks my younger sister was behind the fake page. I was talking to my husband about the possibility of it being my younger sister that was doing this to us, and he confronted her. She told him she didn't like him because he is "illegal" NO IDEA what that even means lol and he isn't even! anyway she denied having anything to do with it and then turned around and threatened me saying she has no problem going to the police and saying he threatened her family (which he never did) she said I am going to regret defending my husband because I'm going to lose my family over it. Its just sad, very sad situation. My husband is a great guy, he is funny, and caring. Loves doing things for others. He is a people pleaser. I find it heart breaking that they've never given him a fair chance. I feel badly for my husband because he is judged so harshly by people that don't even care enough to get to know the real him. Exactly what I was trying to protect him from, is exactly what happened. He doesn't deserve the harshness, its breaking my heart.
Sorry this is so long, but truly no one else besides you fine group of people can truly relate to where I'm coming from on some level
