I am so sorry to hear your story, Black-Berry... I know your feelings. I was always ready to hear form CIC telling me that they transfer our application to a local office, or calling us to an interview, or even not hearing from them for more than one year.... I was terrified during my process all the time but I was very much ready for all those which none of them happened. I knew the lady who was exactly in a same situation as me, and her app was transferred to a local office and she and her husband was called for an interview, so I was expecting the same, but I was very very lucky... I wish your case were like mine, I wish they did not give you this much hard time, but... now what you can do is just prove your love to your husband
I would be more than happy to have an interview that I could prove our relationship in person if CIC had a doubt... so please show them how much you and your husband love each other and there is no reason to reject your app!!!
Mint