I'm under sponsorship and want to file for my new wife/baby mother

[chickie72]

I dont see how he can even bring her in 2016 without repercussions somehow, because he will still have to show his divorce certificate when he applies in 2016 and the way they are going they will put new laws in for people like him.

 

[niloogoogooli]

reading this post has made me sooooooooo upset all day....here i am (along with so many others) with legit relationships...waiting to be checked over and over again....and then there are people who abuse the system so easily and fall through the cracks...i just feel so hurt/frustrated/angry....so many emotions...
all i can say is "KARMA"....

 

[pcheng]

sigh...

that's all i have to say

 

[aerogurl87]

This makes me very upset. You separated before you even came to Canada and have the audacity to say she owes you support for the next 3 years, and 10 years for your son?!?!?! What the heck! I hope they deport and BAN you from coming back to Canada. It sucks for your new wife, but when you lie, that's what happens.

 

[Tipha]

Everything that i wanted to say has been said already, can only say i agree and im upset about this. The only reason i come to canada is to reunite with my husband, if i would have had doubts or the relationship ends before landing, i wont land....i would have no reason to stay alone in a foreign country. But such people like him have a reason, cause it was planned from the start to bring his second wife and his kid! Theres no way to talk himself out of this, and i dont believe he cares if his first wife gets hurt, if he cared, he would not have done this, it shows no responsibility or heart and for sure too late now to care. Can only hope, CIC is convienced of the same and hope he finally learns a lesson and will be more honest and responsible in future!

 

[tuyen]

i am sorry it is not my job to judge jury or executioner and thank god it is not because jah know if i was you would be on the next plane outta here .....
trust me them things here get me vex and for you to sit here and talk bout she responsible to you for 3 yrs gtfoh however ..... i hope and pray that you are just wording yourself wrong or not able to put things in the proper contex with the wording cause staright right now u not coming off very well to no body
i see now why imigration be changing rules and such its a pitty that people with legit marriages have to suffer for other peoples bs.... I PRAY FOR YOU AND ALL WHO USE PEOPLE TO GET AHEAD IN LIFE CAUSE .....THE LITTLE DO YOU KNOW KARMA IS B***H

I could TOTALLY hear every word you said there in a Jamaican accent.
I know you were angry...but...is it wrong that I found it to be sexy?

 

[tuyen]

Here goes a long story......I'm a man from jamaica who was sponsored by my ex-wife who is responsible for me for 3yrs and she sponsored my son also who 7 now who she is responsible for for 10yrs. We came to canada in 2011 april and I filed for divorce in march of 2012 and said we have been seperated since march of 2011 so tthey would grant it. I got my divorce in may 2012 and when back to Jamaica and married my 1st love who's been waiting my baby mother in aug 2012 and now I wanto file for her immediately as I need her here to be with me and our son please help me need to kwn if this will work?????

Are you by any chance somehow related to THIS douchebag?

http://www.canadavisa.com/canada-immigration-discussion-board/2-pending-criminal-chargespraa-denied-and-inland-sponsor-application-t112249.0.html

 

[Dan_from_Surrey]

Are you by any chance somehow related to THIS douchebag?

http://www.canadavisa.com/canada-immigration-discussion-board/2-pending-criminal-chargespraa-denied-and-inland-sponsor-application-t112249.0.html

I remember reading that fools story, and couldn't come up with any PG rated words, so decided to hold my tongue, these two would make a great pairing.

 

[chukie]

Oh my this is a SAD state of affairs I read CONFUSED2013 post with utter disgust you and few others are the bad breed that give Jamaica & the men bad name!! Then after you do your damage you want help, advice & sympathy from us...what you want us to say?...that you did good in tricking your wife or think that you genuinely loved her & after landing everything conveniently turned sour that's when you realized you want to be with your baby mum?!
You can't be for real all your lies & deceit will turn back on you hope IF you ever get to file for your baby mum she'll come & f*** you just like you did your first wife!! Or even better your arse sent back to JA

 

[confused2013]

This makes me very upset. You separated before you even came to Canada and have the audacity to say she owes you support for the next 3 years, and 10 years for your son?!?!?! What the heck! I hope they deport and BAN you from coming back to Canada. It sucks for your new wife, but when you lie, that's what happens.

Now let me correct something for you considering that I didn't clearly state what I mean I was simply stating the amount of time that my ex wife is responsible as far whe sponsorship agreement. Never did I say that she owes me anything or is obligated to me and my son cause she isn't. So you might wanna read over what I said.

 

[bk.lw]

So many of us have sacrificed so much just to be in the same country as our loved ones. What have you sacraficed? Your love for your childs mom so you could come to Canada and think you could twist and turn our system? Everything you have done will come back twic to haunt you.

I think what really ping is the fact you stated "we" wanted the divorce and then you turn it all around and say I hope I haven't hurt her because she loves me and didn't want a divorce. So which is it? I don't believe a word you have typed is genuine.

 

[confused2013]

So many of us have sacrificed so much just to be in the same country as our loved ones. What have you sacraficed? Your love for your childs mom so you could come to Canada and think you could twist and turn our system? Everything you have done will come back twic to haunt you.

I think what really ping is the fact you stated "we" wanted the divorce and then you turn it all around and say I hope I haven't hurt her because she loves me and didn't want a divorce. So which is it? I don't believe a word you have typed is genuine.

Since I'm on the topic of clarifying things let me clear things up for you. "We" was an error on my part as I was the 1 who wanted the divorce not her if it was to her we would still be together and I wouldn't give a thought to my baby mother/wife. I didn't want to hurt her in anyway then or now its just that in life each person is entiled to be happy including me.

 

[chickie72]

so you are actually going to sit there and say that you never ever had any intentions of going "back" to your baby mother? That is what we all don't believe. It is too much of a coincidence. We are all saying you used the lady in Canada to get here knowing full well you were going to leave her and bring up your baby mother.

 

[R151NG5UN]

Since I'm on the topic of clarifying things let me clear things up for you. "We" was an error on my part as I was the 1 who wanted the divorce not her if it was to her we would still be together and I wouldn't give a thought to my baby mother/wife. I didn't want to hurt her in anyway then or now its just that in life each person is entiled to be happy including me.

Nobody on this forum is denying yours or anybody else's right to happiness, what they are concerned, angry, pissed about is your elaborate scheme on how to get your new wife, child in to another country and duping an innocent victim. You don't even deny it, you just ramble on about not wanting to make your 1st wife unhappy when infact what you did was 1 of the worst things a human could do to another human.

Anyhow since you and your scheming bitch of a new wife did not think your fraud through properly, the moment you apply to bring her to Canada, the game is up for you and a 1 way ticket back to Jamaica, for you and your poor child who has a sorry excuse for a father like yourself. I hope they hoard you with livestock when they finally catch up with your ass and make an example of you and show that a good respectable country like Canada doesn't need you or anybody of your ilk.

Enjoy what Canada has to offer and 1 bit of advice I will give is, don't get too comfy because you wont be there too long!!!

 

[bk.lw]

Since I'm on the topic of clarifying things let me clear things up for you. "We" was an error on my part as I was the 1 who wanted the divorce not her if it was to her we would still be together and I wouldn't give a thought to my baby mother/wife. I didn't want to hurt her in anyway then or now its just that in life each person is entiled to be happy including me.

Even if you didn't want to hurt her, you have. It's hard to believe you had a son then fell out of love with your "first love" then fell in love with a Canadian, fell out of love with her and then fell back in love with your childs mother aka your first love. You obviously throw the word love around.

Of course everyone deserves to be happy, but there are consequences to actions. You deserve to be happy? Sure but the people you have hurt and affected, including your son, throughout all of this is going to come back to you. You have made your mess and now all that negative/manipulative energy is going to create a wall between you and your right to being "happy"