Hi: I just got married to my Canadian husband last week and am now back in the US ready to submit my visa application by the end of the month. I've already sent off for my FBI check and have medical exams scheduled for myself and two children (I'll be bringing with me). I want to go live with my husband in BC by spring, even if it means leaving my stuff behind. To my understanding, I can go "visit" him and as long as the visa app has been turned in, can stay legally, just cannot work? I've also been told that I can still submit my application outland - is this right? Ideally, I'd like to be able to live up there asap and still be able to travel back to Washington to see my sickly father, but also have heard that until the application is accepted would not be able to leave the country? Please, help??? I can't afford a lawyer and just want to be a family already - what is all of your best advice? Normally, I'd be more patient and just stay here in the states but with strike wait times at 3yrs!!! my heart sinks at the thought of being without my husband that long. What should I do?