oh honey i'm not blaming anyone, or samira jan i'm not punishing, lol! i just wanted everyone to see the realities instead of just thinking and wondering what is happening ...
dear Nenan, i'm sorry to hear what you're going through. but don't worry, long distance relationship never was supposed to be easy. we all, more or less, really get fed up with this whole process sometimes. but honey, your husband should know that this delay is not your fault, or his fault, or anyone else's, well actually it is jason kenney's fault! lol!
but seriously try talking to him and explaining to him that this is how it is right now, and tell him you have 2 options either ruin these days of your lives because of this whole thing, or make the best out of it, tell him that this process will end eventually and you want to live it in a way that after these days pass and you look back, it will be one of your sweet memories, not a nightmare.
come on Nenan, you're a woman, i'm sure you know how to use your sweet and kind and deep feelings to make your husband calm too :-* take care and don't think too much about this whole process and you will see that time passes by pretty fast and i hope you get your visa very very very sooooon
and everyone else also