canadianmaple1111 said:
We are getting a few stat decs from family/friends who can vouch that we are in a relationship. Do those need to be on a particular stat dec form? Also, I'm assuming they are to be notarised? Does anyone know where you can get docs notarised in Canada for free or cheap?
No, they definitely don't have to be on a form, and the less they look like a form letter, the better. The best thing is to tell your friends and family the kind of information you want them to include (how long they've known you, when they learned you were in a relationship, why they think you are staying together, etc.). Get them to write some things in their own words. This is the most effective.
Definitely shop around for a notary or commissioner of oaths to notarize or commission your documents. Your friends will have to travel to the commissioner to make the oath in his or her presence. Commissioners of Oaths are generally the cheapest and lawyers are generally the most expensive. We had our letters done by a legal aid lawyer at a weekly clinic. He told us that he wasn't supposed to do it unless we were at a welfare level of income, but he was a recent law school grad and he felt sorry for us. We took our word processor documents and slightly reworded it more to his liking before getting the friends of ours to sign them in his presence.
We also found a very cheap commissioner/notary in Ottawa (
http://www.valu-notary.com/) who only charges from $15 a document, but you'd have to be lucky to find such a price. Most city halls or town halls have someone there who can do it for you, maybe the mayor, or even a city councillor but prices vary widely. There may be some who will do it for free, while Ottawa City Hall charges $40. Your MP or MPP is another person who may be able to commission a letter. You will have to ask.
We had to make a declaration that we live in Quebec to apply for a Quebec health card and found out that there is someone at most Services Quebec offices who will do it for free. I'm not sure if they will do anything that is not directly related to the Quebec government, though.