DOn't mean to be a bearer of bad news or anything but I haven't heard of anything such - yes there is a stipulation that forbids a PR Holder from overstaying outside of Canada for over a year or something but nothing that stops them from traveling back and forth...my husband used to visit me once a year ( (but he's a citizen) and my parent-in-laws (PR Holders) are always flying to and back from Canada - a matter in fact last time they overstayed in Pakistan by a few months but still they got back w/o any problem...Faso said:
There should be a love button! For all the wives waiting.. killing with kindness is the BEST approach ever!ash309 said:DOn't mean to be a bearer of bad news or anything but I haven't heard of anything such - yes there is a stipulation that forbids a PR Holder from overstaying outside of Canada for over a year or something but nothing that stops them from traveling back and forth...my husband used to visit me once a year ( (but he's a citizen) and my parent-in-laws (PR Holders) are always flying to and back from Canada - a matter in fact last time they overstayed in Pakistan by a few months but still they got back w/o any problem...
On another note - you don't know exactly what your husband is going through in Canada - maybe he just can't afford the trip or perhaps he has gotten really frustrated with the whole process - in either case i suggest to you as someone in the same boat - just be supportive and understanding of the situation - rather than revolting (unless of course you don't trust him or something on those lines) just be ultra sweet and agree with his decisions - coz at the end of the day when you chose to get married to a Canadian PR Holder u must have known about this brutal process and the effects it would have on your relationship. This process is basically a test of your relationship from what I have seen and you got to be down-right Rock Solid and have full faith in eachother...
P.S. There were various times when my husband would back out of visits and I would wine and cry but then I would just be normal and ULTRA SWEET - That usually got him to me right away - trust me killing with kindness is the best you can do
laghmani said:
Ure rightash309 said:DOn't mean to be a bearer of bad news or anything but I haven't heard of anything such - yes there is a stipulation that forbids a PR Holder from overstaying outside of Canada for over a year or something but nothing that stops them from traveling back and forth...my husband used to visit me once a year ( (but he's a citizen) and my parent-in-laws (PR Holders) are always flying to and back from Canada - a matter in fact last time they overstayed in Pakistan by a few months but still they got back w/o any problem...
On another note - you don't know exactly what your husband is going through in Canada - maybe he just can't afford the trip or perhaps he has gotten really frustrated with the whole process - in either case i suggest to you as someone in the same boat - just be supportive and understanding of the situation - rather than revolting (unless of course you don't trust him or something on those lines) just be ultra sweet and agree with his decisions - coz at the end of the day when you chose to get married to a Canadian PR Holder u must have known about this brutal process and the effects it would have on your relationship. This process is basically a test of your relationship from what I have seen and you got to be down-right Rock Solid and have full faith in eachother...
P.S. There were various times when my husband would back out of visits and I would wine and cry but then I would just be normal and ULTRA SWEET - That usually got him to me right away - trust me killing with kindness is the best you can do
but yeah i dont trust anybody that much because it was an arranged marriage and although its been almost two years of marriage,i still dont know him or my susral properly..
very coool technique, Totally agree with you Ash.ash309 said:DOn't mean to be a bearer of bad news or anything but I haven't heard of anything such - yes there is a stipulation that forbids a PR Holder from overstaying outside of Canada for over a year or something but nothing that stops them from traveling back and forth...my husband used to visit me once a year ( (but he's a citizen) and my parent-in-laws (PR Holders) are always flying to and back from Canada - a matter in fact last time they overstayed in Pakistan by a few months but still they got back w/o any problem...
On another note - you don't know exactly what your husband is going through in Canada - maybe he just can't afford the trip or perhaps he has gotten really frustrated with the whole process - in either case i suggest to you as someone in the same boat - just be supportive and understanding of the situation - rather than revolting (unless of course you don't trust him or something on those lines) just be ultra sweet and agree with his decisions - coz at the end of the day when you chose to get married to a Canadian PR Holder u must have known about this brutal process and the effects it would have on your relationship. This process is basically a test of your relationship from what I have seen and you got to be down-right Rock Solid and have full faith in eachother...
P.S. There were various times when my husband would back out of visits and I would wine and cry but then I would just be normal and ULTRA SWEET - That usually got him to me right away - trust me killing with kindness is the best you can do
