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jani99 said:
I dont know yet...
sorry not being nosyy
but u kno wat, u shouldnt let ur inlaws get in the way of someone who loves u

my inlaws didnt force me into my nikkah or marriage,
but they did a lot of *censored word* to me, but still im workin on my marriage wit my husband n
I love my husband more then anyhitng in this world
Thanks to ALLAH SWT.

Wen someone is meant to be wit u in life n u do a nikkah n have a life together
Allah SWT is always wit u..... even thro the hards times.
Dont make a mistake that u will regret after.
Im sure the girl n u are innocent. but work it out Allah SWT gives u tests

n wen u service the test ur reward is greater than wat u can expect.

Life isnt a game where u can choose to marry someone one day n the next day u say
i dont want her/him. The only game this life is about is who is good n how is bad.

Ur spouse is a person that is extra support system, someone who courages u n stands by u all the way.
If both parties give up then both life is ruined. A girl is way more sensitive then a guy. U think that wats happening
she is happy i dont think so...... I hate everythin bout people tryin to ruin someone life.
i love seeing people wit their spouse happy n enjoying life..

but i pray that both of u work out ur relationship and
May Allah SWT have mercy on both of your souls n hearts n
the Love grows for you two.
And hope your sitation works out good for both of you.
 
wes786 said:
khan sis, the question always bothered me :) I know you are an afghan and your husband is from Pakistan, may I ask if you were raised in Pakistan or you lived most of you life in afghanistan? Where did you learn to speak Urdu?

Wes Bro I raised in Pakistan and Honestly love Pakistan more than Afghanistan when ever I come to Pakistan from Afghanistan I feel that here is my home land I learn Urdu from Pakistan and since I know my husband from last ten years and I communicate with him in Urdu there I learn how ever still I have lots of grammatical mistakes while talking in Urdu hope you all never mind it :)
 
khan82 said:
Wes Bro I raised in Pakistan and Honestly love Pakistan more than Afghanistan when ever I come to Pakistan from Afghanistan I feel that here is my home land I learn Urdu from Pakistan and since I know my husband from last ten years and I communicate with him in Urdu there I learn how ever still I have lots of grammatical mistakes while talking in Urdu hope you all never mind it :)

No not at all. Its nice to see some pashtu mixed in with Urdu, I love it!
 
wes786 said:
No not at all. Its nice to see some pashtu mixed in with Urdu, I love it!

I think it's Farsi mixed in Urdu not Pashto lol ;D
 
khan82 said:
Wes Bro I raised in Pakistan and Honestly love Pakistan more than Afghanistan when ever I come to Pakistan from Afghanistan I feel that here is my home land I learn Urdu from Pakistan and since I know my husband from last ten years and I communicate with him in Urdu there I learn how ever still I have lots of grammatical mistakes while talking in Urdu hope you all never mind it :)

I enjoy reading your urdu :)

I can even talk to you in this accent and you wouldn't realize that its a non-pathan speaking with you. I did that to my wife and she hung up the phone saying WRONG NUMBER :o
 
Tor-wi said:
I think it's Farsi mixed in Urdu not Pashto lol ;D

Well URDU is a mixture of Farsi and Arabic, thatz why its not hard to learn for Afghans.
 
Sis I blv u need a 2 way effort to make things happen and even in ur case its obvious and God knows better whats with Jani's case
anyway you know Pushto thats good that means you also know how to make Qabuli pulaoo like Khan82 han? ;)

R.Mujgani said:
sorry not being nosyy
but u kno wat, u shouldnt let ur inlaws get in the way of someone who loves u

my inlaws didnt force me into my nikkah or marriage,
but they did a lot of *censored word* to me, but still im workin on my marriage wit my husband n
I love my husband more then anyhitng in this world
Thanks to ALLAH SWT.

Wen someone is meant to be wit u in life n u do a nikkah n have a life together
Allah SWT is always wit u..... even thro the hards times.
Dont make a mistake that u will regret after.
Im sure the girl n u are innocent. but work it out Allah SWT gives u tests

n wen u service the test ur reward is greater than wat u can expect.

Life isnt a game where u can choose to marry someone one day n the next day u say
i dont want her/him. The only game this life is about is who is good n how is bad.

Ur spouse is a person that is extra support system, someone who courages u n stands by u all the way.
If both parties give up then both life is ruined. A girl is way more sensitive then a guy. U think that wats happening
she is happy i dont think so...... I hate everythin bout people tryin to ruin someone life.
i love seeing people wit their spouse happy n enjoying life..

but i pray that both of u work out ur relationship and
May Allah SWT have mercy on both of your souls n hearts n
the Love grows for you two.
And hope your sitation works out good for both of you.
 
Danny4450 said:
I enjoy reading your urdu :)

I can even talk to you in this accent and you wouldn't realize that its a non-pathan speaking with you. I did that to my wife and she hung up the phone saying WRONG NUMBER :o

hehehe cute.
 
jani99 said:
well, we cant explain these things to the embassy...
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Dnt wry every thng will ok and why u have bad rltn with ur inlaws and why u dnt talk wid ur wife?
 
jani99 said:
I guess, now its the time... ;)
Ohhhh but why plz dnt do like this its so bad?ap apni shadi say khush nahe hay kya?aur agar nahi thay to nikha ku kya?plz dnt do like this atlst apni wife ka he soch lo ap
 
but its hard for us to learn Pushtoo I always wanted to learn a lil more to atleast understand general conversations but I could only know some greetings few **** words ;) and a song Bibi Sanam jan courtesy Zaib & Haniya :)

Danny4450 said:
Well URDU is a mixture of Farsi and Arabic, thatz why its not hard to learn for Afghans.
 
ainy inam said:
Ohhhh but why plz dnt do like this its so bad?ap apni shadi say khush nahe hay kya?aur agar nahi thay to nikha ku kya?plz dnt do like this atlst apni wife ka he soch lo ap

As he mentioned earlier, he was forced into Nikkah by his elders and didn't want to get married to the girl. It must be something severe between him and his inlaws that we don't know.
 
saggit_16 said:
but its hard for us to learn Pushtoo I always wanted to learn a lil more to atleast understand general conversations but I could only know some greetings few **** words ;) and a song Bibi Sanam jan courtesy Zaib & Haniya :)

I know how to say "Shut Up" and "get lost" in farsi...dont ask HOW ;D