CHC, Islamabad Spouse Sponsorship Timeline 2009 -2010

[wish he was here]

Thanks wes786, for reading and replying. My poor husband gets the blunt of it, which isn't good for the relationship so I seek a friends ear but whenever I try venting with friends, at the end of it I feel sheepish and silly, like a child crying over a lost toy. The're no help. *sigh* Posting here, everyone here understands one another's situation and can empathize. I'm so happy I stumbled onto this forum while googling for answers.

fna786 I totally understand. Its been 20 months since I got married and in July it'll be 2 years. I wish I could visit him, unfortunately I can't, some reasons.
Every now and then I've been having emotional meltdowns and I've been unable to share how I felt with anyone. Those I shared it with didn't understand or cared. I don't want to harp about it with my husband much because I think its unfair that he listen to me cry and whine about it daily. He has his own fair share of stress. Inshallah soon we'll be with our spouses.

What humtum143 (below) posted gives me some ray of hope. I hope/pray CHC-isb start working faster on our processes. This is wishful thinking, but I pray/hope I get to see him by the end of this summer and not at the end of this year or God forbid in 2012 according to that silly 21 months.

Post by humtum143 "Ok guy so this is the update from my side,

Starting From tomorrow all level 4 employees from CHC ISB will be working every weekend until the end of the month for a first quarter final.----- Good news

Decision Making officer will not work the weekends.

family class for parents maybe transferred to Dubai but the project is not certain waiting to be confirmed------Lets wait anyways this will help Spousal time-line reduction but its not confirmed.

starting march spousal and family reunification policy will have changes--what are the changes We don't know but its been brought up that spousal case cannot exceed more then 12 months in the future----will the congress approve to it---i don't know we have to wait till end of march---I hope inshallah it those happen.

an audit maybe conducted on CHC ISB again i dont know the date but the audit as per the congress was asking why are the Salary of some employees in CHC ISB is exceeding average Canadians salary---- average salary expected by CIC to CHC ISB rs85,000 Month and the Actual average is rs 120,000 a month WHAT A RIPE OFF THEY ARE MAKING Good money.

Now and the last under Media section Because Media scares the shyt out of everyone...Starting soon I don't know yet when who ever Lands in Canada will have to Fill a questioner and explain the experience they add during the processing of the case what could be improved.

Thanks all and Inshallah things will Process faster for all"

 

[marya238]

Thank you for the kinds words Marya, however nothing really helps with this stress. Especially when my husband keeps pushing me to go to Pakistan but what he doesnt want to understand is that my work is not permitting me to take any vacation days for the moment.
And he easily says " forget the job, quit " but then who will pay for my mortgage, car, insurances, bills, CC payments ect ... When he comes here and starts living here then he will realize how life in Pakistan for him was so much easier ... Its easy sitting at your fathers shop and doing nothing!!! I call it " MAKIYAN MAARING " LOL

Hahaah Jaania .. Welcome to the CLUB! hun .. yahan bhi kuch aysa hi haal hai .. miyan kehte hain sab chor k ajao .. mere saath MAKHIYAN MAARNE hahah it isnt easy we both in the same boat .. all we can do is WAIT ..

kabhi phadday ho chuke hain is baat ko ley ker .. main sooch rahi hoon sari laraiyon wali email CIC ko bhej doon or bolo ji ye shadi bilkul genuine hai ... jaise k aap dekh sakte hain .. agar hum dono paas hote to ik doosre ko maar chuke hotey loooolzzz .. is se acha proof kahan se mileyga in pagal k bachon ko ..

 

[khan82]

any one can give me an idea that can i apply for Visit visa to my spouse?????

 

[bestplace4u]

any one can give me an idea that can i apply for Visit visa to my spouse?????

Yes you can with 50 50% chances, only I say 50% chance other says its 99% decline ratio

 

[wish he was here]

How do you send the e-mails as proof? I mean send them as is or send a selection of them or summarize them? Many of our e-mails are very personal so I have no idea what to do. Plus I sent over 1000 + of them to my husband where as he's sent 300 to me lol. How should I go about this? Any ideas?

Thanks

 

[bestplace4u]

How do you send the e-mails as proof? I mean send them as is or send a selection of them or summarize them? Many of our e-mails are very personal so I have no idea what to do. Plus I sent over 1000 + of them to my husband where as he's sent 300 to me lol. How should I go about this? Any ideas?

Thanks

Take a snapshot of folder in which u have emails then take out a print, take out whole print of only those emails about which you are comfy.Open your email and use the print option.

 

[lonly widout hubby]

Hahaah Jaania .. Welcome to the CLUB! hun .. yahan bhi kuch aysa hi haal hai .. miyan kehte hain sab chor k ajao .. mere saath MAKHIYAN MAARNE hahah it isnt easy we both in the same boat .. all we can do is WAIT ..

kabhi phadday ho chuke hain is baat ko ley ker .. main sooch rahi hoon sari laraiyon wali email CIC ko bhej doon or bolo ji ye shadi bilkul genuine hai ... jaise k aap dekh sakte hain .. agar hum dono paas hote to ik doosre ko maar chuke hotey loooolzzz .. is se acha proof kahan se mileyga in pagal k bachon ko ..

omg.. maryaaaaa...... wat apost ................ lmao.................... HILARIOUSSSSSSSSSSSSS

 

[knaeem]

Hi everyone,

I just recieved an e-mail from my MP'S office that the case has been finalized and passport was recieved and the applicant will be recieving the documents back with in the next couple of days.

So Insha Allah may the end of this week my husband will recieve his passport back.

This is good new sister saroo... InshAllah you wil get pasport soon within couple of days.... then wil be a big partyyyyyy... wish u all the best

 

[saggit19]

Needing to vent - It upsets me when older people tell me to enjoy the single life that I'm living without my husband here, until my husband joins me. To them its like, aaj nahi to kal, eik na eik din saath phir hoge na to abhi ko enjoy karo. Its sooo hard. Where ever I look, or do, I think of him. Oh, if he was here, he'd enjoy this or like that or try to do this etc. What drives me even more mad is when people treat me as if I'm not married at all, just because he's not physically present, somehow that makes me "not married". Conversation leads to, oh wait til your married then you'll know how hard life gets and have children blah blah...then you'll know. Then I have correct them that yes I did get married and I have been with him but for some reason that still doesn't count as living a "married life". Its hard enough having people ask me constantly and every time I see them, "us ka irada hai ane ka ya nahi", or "wo arra hai ya nahi" ya "tum ne apply kiya bhi hai ya nahi apne shauhar k liye" but to have someone tell me I'm not "technically married" because he's not here, pushes me over the edge. :'(

I pray CHC-Isb start getting their acts together and start processing us faster so that we can be with our spouses once again and forget about this nightmare.

i agree with u 100 % ..no one can understand our pain except the people who are going through it.

everytime, every day i wish my husband could be here with me..i try to keep myself busy in work..but when i am going home at the end of the day i feel that another boring day has come to end and there is no feeling of fulfillment or satisfaction

 

[wish he was here]

Take a snapshot of folder in which u have emails then take out a print, take out whole print of only those emails about which you are comfy.Open your email and use the print option.

Thanks sooo much. I will definitely do that ;D

 

[marya238]

listen send them any personal email .. to them .. thats wat these idiots want to see ..
i didnt wana send anything either my lawyer uncle told me .. beta send em anything u have .. so i did ..

 

[saggit19]

Still waiting for my re-medical and PPR.As per CAIPS notes my will open on 17th March 2011 INSHALLAH.

INSHALLAH sab thek ho ga sab ka.

i'll pray that 17th march proves to be a good day for you..and may the outcome of this process be a postive one !

inshAllah everything will work out just fine

 

[wish he was here]

listen send them any personal email .. to them .. thats wat these idiots want to see ..
i didnt wana send anything either my lawyer uncle told me .. beta send em anything u have .. so i did ..

Seriously!?? :-\ Total breach of our privacy. I feel somethings should only be left between a husband a wife but I'm willing to do anything, may it be sharing my personal things, in hopes for him to somehow be here quickly. I'll ask what my husband thinks. lol they'll have to translate our roman urdu conversations. Btw does it help by sending personal e-mails?

saggit19 *hugs* that's why I like this forum. Everyone here understands and can relate to our pain.

i agree with u 100 % ..no one can understand our pain except the people who are going through it.

everytime, every day i wish my husband could be here with me..i try to keep myself busy in work..but when i am going home at the end of the day i feel that another boring day has come to end and there is no feeling of fulfillment or satisfaction

 

[wish he was here]

I wish teleportation existed and that is was possible. I'd visit my hubby every day, may it be for 5 mins.

 

[godisgreat]

i'll pray that 17th march proves to be a good day for you..and may the outcome of this process be a postive one !

inshAllah everything will work out just fine

Hi Saggit19,

Thank you so much. ALLAH bless us all. AMEEN