CHC, Islamabad Spouse Sponsorship Timeline 2009 -2010

[alpha1980]

lolz.......... gin k nai guzrtey din....... so k guzaro meri tarah

no worried mera aur apka aik he din PPR aie gha. did u email recently CHC?

 

[depression]

HI GUYZ,,,CONGRATS TO EVERYONE WID GOOD NEW,,,,I ALSO GOT SOME TODAY,,,FINALLY GOT MY REMED,,,YAYYYYYYYY,,,,N ALSO I HAVE A QUESTION,,,,THEYRE ASKIN FOR MY ORIGINAL NIKKAH NAMA IN URDU,,,,WE NEVER MADE THAT,,,,SINCE I KNEW U NEEDED A TRANSLATION,,,SO WE JUST GOT IT ORIGINALLY MADE IN ENGLISH,,,,SO DO I NEED TO MAKE A NEW ONE IN URDU,,,OR WAT????

hello hkbangash......
i have got the same prob as u mentioned i only submitted english original nikkah nama and dont have any urdu one so so i have to make it again or what? what ur doing are u making it in urdu in old dates please help me also im march 2011 aor they may also ASk this same thing in coming moths , so i better make it if it is tht much imp to make .
please also comment mt dear senior fellows. thanks .

 

[mfawad]

very touching :'(
1 + for u

thankz i know i cried to when i read it....

 

[lonly widout hubby]

HI GUYZ,,,CONGRATS TO EVERYONE WID GOOD NEW,,,,I ALSO GOT SOME TODAY,,,FINALLY GOT MY REMED,,,YAYYYYYYYY,,,,N ALSO I HAVE A QUESTION,,,,THEYRE ASKIN FOR MY ORIGINAL NIKKAH NAMA IN URDU,,,,WE NEVER MADE THAT,,,,SINCE I KNEW U NEEDED A TRANSLATION,,,SO WE JUST GOT IT ORIGINALLY MADE IN ENGLISH,,,,SO DO I NEED TO MAKE A NEW ONE IN URDU,,,OR WAT????

woww yaar congratzzzzzz for remEDICALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL
PLZ PRAY FOR ME TOOOOOOOOO

 

[wes786]

THanks

I just faxed them. Do you know how long do they take to update the address on her file.


And is e-cas is same as client application status? For me it says application received on this date by islamabad.

e-cas stands for Electronic Client Application Status so yes it is the same thing...

 

[wes786]

thank u loadz wes for sayin that...thats exactly wat im pissed off about,,,i never made the urdu one for that reason,,,n now how do i get an original in urdu,,,my husbandz in canada im in dubai,,,my urdu will basically b a translation of the english,,,io dunno im so lost,,,i dont get it,,,i cud jus get it translated n then send it to him to sign n then back to me,,,! never ending circle of crap!

hello hkbangash......
i have got the same prob as u mentioned i only submitted english original nikkah nama and dont have any urdu one so so i have to make it again or what? what ur doing are u making it in urdu in old dates please help me also im march 2011 aor they may also ASk this same thing in coming moths , so i better make it if it is tht much imp to make .
please also comment mt dear senior fellows. thanks .

Its a tough situation, I have never seen this kind of situation before, I would suggest you get in contact with the registrar in Pakistan (ask someone to do that for you in Pakistan) and ask them directly about what could be done to get an Urdu one. You can also email the embassy and try to explain the whole situation, and they might not ask you for an URDU one! Its worth a try! Tell them that the one you submitted is an orinigal but in English and because the embassy wanted documents in English you never got one in URDU. See what they say...

 

[ftpr]

no worried mera aur apka aik he din PPR aie gha. did u email recently CHC?

not yet.. but i thinking to do ......... my AOR ...13th july. v hav same same dates hahahha

 

[resham]

I know this was discussed many times before. Since so many forum members got updates on their application’s I want to ask did address appear-disappear has any meaning to our files updates or it is just an assumption.
Response would b appreciated

 

[wes786]

I know this was discussed many times before. Since so many forum members got updates on their application's I want to ask did address appear-disappear has any meaning to our files updates or it is just an assumption.
Response would b appreciated

There are many theories on this simple question...

Here read this whole thread and you might get an idea after reading 12 pages...

http://www.canadavisa.com/canada-immigration-discussion-board/address-disappearing-august-2011-t81304.0.html

 

[ch33rez]

hello hkbangash......
i have got the same prob as u mentioned i only submitted english original nikkah nama and dont have any urdu one so so i have to make it again or what? what ur doing are u making it in urdu in old dates please help me also im march 2011 aor they may also ASk this same thing in coming moths , so i better make it if it is tht much imp to make .
please also comment mt dear senior fellows. thanks .

Urdu nikkah nama is very impotant, they will definately ask for it, english one is only a translation so its better to make urdu one with the same dates which is mentioned on english one.

 

[pakivette]

here is what I wrote to MP today, I have bugged them 97 times (office visits/emails/phone calls etc) in last 7 months and they were tired of me

Hello


My wife received the passport and Visa today and I just want to thank you for all your effort on this matter. Total processing time was 18 months, I hope in future the Conservative Govt will review the immigration policy for Pakistan and give priority to family class so that families don't have to suffer. Prime Minister need to straighten out the policies to unite Canadian families specially from Pakistan, and use less resources in building Jails.

and her response is as follows... (same standard response)

Hello

Our office is happy to hear about your wonderful news. Congratulations.

We have passed along your comments concerning the processing times to Prime Minister and Minister Kenney.

In the future, please do not hesitate in contacting our office with any federal government issues that you may have.

Best Regards,

Congratulation brother ......... I remember when I joined the forum I read your posts from 2010 and you were writing to everyone complaining against the process ......... your timely visa should be the message to all of those who are scared to complain against the unfair processing time (not the immigration officers) ...... thanks for raising your voice and continue to do so if you find time ....... have a happy holy and healthy life together and keep us in your early morning prayers

 

[anzee]

I sent all attested photocopies from Ministry of Foreign Affairs including Nikkah nama (not original) and English translation original.
is there any problem?

 

[wes786]

Urdu nikkah nama is very impotant, they will definately ask for it, english one is only a translation so its better to make urdu one with the same dates which is mentioned on english one.

If you are saying its a translation, then where is the original? Translation of what?

I am telling you its not a translation its a NIKAH NAMA in ENGLISH. People now have choice to either get it in URDU or English. People who only choose to get it in English don't receive one in URDU. If it was a translation then they would've received the original URDU one along with its translation in English. Since now there is an option to receive an URDU or ENGLISH or BOTH; I chose both and received both, while others made a mistake and only chose ENGLISH so now they have to find the maulana sahib and get the URDU one done? Thats not right, what if he moved to another city or country or just doesn't exist? ???

My wife's original birth certificate was in English I didn't send them a URDU translation for it and they never asked for an URDU birth certificate? Why should they?

 

[wes786]

I sent all attested photocopies from Ministry of Foreign Affairs including Nikkah nama (not original) and English translation original.
is there any problem?

Yes thats a problem bro! You will receive a letter asking to send all originals including nikah nama and birth certificate! It clearly states to send everything originals for Pakistani along with a translation in english or french (If originals are in another language).

 

[sabii]

Married or not... you should read this.
Marriage.

“When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?

I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Jane about my wife's divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind...I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead. My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push through with the divorce.— At least, in the eyes of our son—- I'm a loving husband....

The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves.

So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!

v heart touching! +1 ffor u