CHC, Islamabad Spouse Sponsorship Timeline 2009 -2010

[ONE 2 KA 4]

Salam every one i am so depress today I didn't go to office as well and cry alot I miss my hubby I am so strong but some time failed I email Chc no respond please pray for me all of you

Lo kr lo baat. Hay ke nahi Kamli sister. Behin ONE 2 KA 4 ki ho aur cry kre. Ider dekhe mein apni behin ke liye kya laya. Chorian le ke aya aur wo be poori ki poori dozen's. Chalo ub pehin ke aye aur smile de. Sister hansti hoi achi lagti hy cry krti hoi nhi.

Oye Behna nahi chada ga ohno jine tenu rolaya.

 

[Danny4450]

Salam every one i am so depress today I didn't go to office as well and cry alot I miss my hubby I am so strong but some time failed I email Chc no respond please pray for me all of you

Sister,

I can understand your pain and suffering. It is very unfortunate of us that we have to wait for so long without our spouses . The best we can do is complain to Allah, ask him for his mercy and help and InshAllah he would make it easy for us. Think about all those people who were never able to be with their loved ones either it was just love or marriage. Think about those people who started their new life and Allah took away their partners. Imagine what they went through? There are people in this world who are going through worse than us right now. So we should thank Allah for his mercy and beg him to make it easier for us. And only Allah can make it easy for us. Ameen

 

[amnafahad4life]

Salam every one i am so depress today I didn't go to office as well and cry alot I miss my hubby I am so strong but some time failed I email Chc no respond please pray for me all of you

aaww dont worry dear everything will be ok.. dont cry.. just keep urself busy.. all of us r going through the same phase i hope Allah helps us all and give us patience.. Amen

 

[khan82]

Lo kr lo baat. Hay ke nahi Kamli sister. Behin ONE 2 KA 4 ki ho aur cry kre. Ider dekhe mein apni behin ke liye kya laya. Chorian le ke aya aur wo be poori ki poori dozen's. Chalo ub pehin ke aye aur smile de. Sister hansti hoi achi lagti hy cry krti hoi nhi.

Oye Behna nahi chada ga ohno jine tenu rolaya.

hahaha you are so sweet brother may Allah give you all happiness I really lough when I read ur post lol bus pray for me my hubby has a family problem there which make me so scary I don't want to loss him I wrote this to Chc as well but they get every thing jole

 

[mrs waqas baig]

its my hubby's 1st bday after our marriage...i miss him.....i baked a cake for him n blew out the candles my self n cut the cake myself......chc ppl r so zalim......its been 2 months since we submited our aplication n seems like ages...n from wht ihv read in this forum....ppl r waiting for like more then a year.....its so depressing...we r soo far behind..... :'(.....May Allah help us all...its so hard to stay away from ur husband/wife...even though im living with my parents still un ki kammi hamehsa rehti hai..... :'(

 

[khan82]

Sister,

I can understand your pain and suffering. It is very unfortunate of us that we have to wait for so long without our spouses . The best we can do is complain to Allah, ask him for his mercy and help and InshAllah he would make it easy for us. Think about all those people who were never able to be with their loved ones either it was just love or marriage. Think about those people who started their new life and Allah took away their partners. Imagine what they went through? There are people in this world who are going through worse than us right now. So we should thank Allah for his mercy and beg him to make it easier for us. And only Allah can make it easy for us. Ameen

thank you so much brother you are right I do pray all the time and I have strong believe to Allah but some time i am so weak still i am happy to have all of you here to help and support me

 

[saggit19]

Salam every one i am so depress today I didn't go to office as well and cry alot I miss my hubby I am so strong but some time failed I email Chc no respond please pray for me all of you

i wont ask u to not cry..but make sure whenever u cry u do it while praying to Allah.

inshAllah everything will be alright..try to bury your depression and keep moving forward..your hubby will be here soon..pray very hard

pray to Allah for health and happiness for u n ur hubby and to resolve all family problems u guys r faced with

 

[mrs waqas baig]

n plz tell medical kab tak valid hota hai app...?w attached my medical with the forms...

 

[khan82]

aaww dont worry dear everything will be ok.. dont cry.. just keep urself busy.. all of us r going through the same phase i hope Allah helps us all and give us patience.. Amen

yes you are right sister but some time I get so sad I am in depuration last month I was in hospital for two days coz of all these tension but Allah is great u r ri8

 

[HIC2011]

yes you are right sister but some time I get so sad I am in depuration last month I was in hospital for two days coz of all these tension but Allah is great u r ri8

Dont Worry yaar time guzar he jata hai ....look at me waiting from 18 monthss....

 

[Danny4450]

n plz tell medical kab tak valid hota hai app...?w attached my medical with the forms...

Medical is valid for 12 months from the date it was done.

 

[khan82]

i wont ask u to not cry..but make sure whenever u cry u do it while praying to Allah.

inshAllah everything will be alright..try to bury your depression and keep moving forward..your hubby will be here soon..pray very hard

pray to Allah for health and happiness for u n ur hubby and to resolve all family problems u guys r faced with
Yes you are right I do pray sadqa telawat every thing to my Allah but still wait may be issi Mai khair hai hamary

 

[mahmed17]

To Khan82 and all other going through this horrible process:

I always remember the amazing story of Zakariya (as) and how he was blessed with Yahya (as) when him and his wife were in very old age. In surah Maryam the opening verses say:

[This is] a mention of the mercy of your Lord to His servant Zechariah
When he called to his Lord a private supplication.
He said, "My Lord, indeed my bones have weakened, and my head has filled with white, and never have I been in my supplication to You, my Lord, unhappy.

If you see the beautiful way he made dua to Allah(swt)..he had been praying for a child and he says that he has never despaired or become unhappy when doing dua to Allah...and then Allah not only gave him a son but Allah (swt) named Yahya (as) Himself.

It's an amazing story and just shows that we also should never despair...Allah (swt) can do anything so if we need to cry then get on your knees, do sajda to Allah, and talk to Him. Whenever you talk to Him you feel so much better and inshAllah we will all hear good news when the written time for us comes.

 

[mrs waqas baig]

Medical is valid for 12 months from the date it was done.

thanks...n does it help tht my husband is s dr...wud tht make any differnce in speeding up the process?

 

[mahmed17]

its my hubby's 1st bday after our marriage...i miss him.....i baked a cake for him n blew out the candles my self n cut the cake myself......chc ppl r so zalim......its been 2 months since we submited our aplication n seems like ages...n from wht ihv read in this forum....ppl r waiting for like more then a year.....its so depressing...we r soo far behind..... :'(.....May Allah help us all...its so hard to stay away from ur husband/wife...even though im living with my parents still un ki kammi hamehsa rehti hai..... :'(

Aw i pray that Allah (swt) makes this process speedy for you and that you are united with your hubby soon inshAllah. Honestly reading this it reminded me of myself, after we got married and I had my birthday, then he had his and we both said k inshAllah agle saal to hum Canada main ho gye to phir birthday ka bhi mazah a jaye ga..then our first anniversary came and we said we will be together on our 2nd anniversary inshAllah...then 2 eids went by, then 3, then 4...and in 2010 I had my second birthday without him and he had his 2nd without me and we said wow last year we thought we would be together...then we said khair inshAllah on our second anniversary...and now it is 1 month until our 2nd anniversary and I am preparing myself to be alone for that aswell...unfortunately we can't speed up the process ourselves but we can do dua to be united soon...it's not easy you are right but never give up hope and always remember Allah (swt) can make anything possible.

Hope you are smiling today and counting your blessings ;D