CHC, Islamabad Spouse Sponsorship Timeline 2009 -2010

[became-a-loner]

hi guys im back from pakistan after visiting my hubby.. it was a short trip lasted for only 10-11 days but im now missing my hubby like crazy!!!

i am devastated ever since i came back..and kept crying throughout the loong flight..
it seems everyone on this forum is depressed tooo..i pray that we all get the good news very sooon inshAllah

mahmed did u get ur caips yet?? its going to be a month since u applied for them right ?

ok so while i was there, my hubby emailed the embassy and the reply we got was

"Your application is currently in process and is in queue for review by a decision making officer. Information provided has been noted."

I wish we could console you but hope is the only choice we have in given circumstances, In my humble opinion when it is in que for Decision Making Officer it means that local staff have already done their part in terms of evaluating the relationship, security clearance must have been done and Immigration Officer makes a decision to call for interview or to waive it, I guess it takes from 2-3 months for IO to look at the file since there are only few of them left working there. May God help you get an interview waiver Inshallah, also you may like to send the copies of boarding passes and details of trip such as pics, receipts from dine outs etc before the decision making officer reviews your file. Good luck

 

[saggit19]

Aww I know that horrible feeling not a nice thing to go through. Sounds like you will soon be getting remed and PPR inshAllah if your file is with decision making officer I'll keep praying for you.

I haven't received my caips notes yet and i'm still waiting for them it will be a month in 2 days so hopefully i will be getting them soon and inshAllah they have something good in them.

At least you were with your hubby even those 10 or 11 days i'm sure you were happy and hope he is here with you soon inshAllah

yes Alhamdollilah i had a really nice time..my husband did everything possible to make me happy and relaxed..but now i am missing him sooo much ... waking up in the middle of the night and not finding him beside me is the worst part.

inshAllah dear everything will work out for you..i have a feeling that the pics and updates you have sent to chc after your recent trip to pakistan has turned your case around..
i remember someone on this or the other forum said that caips take around 30-40 days so don't panic if you don't receive them yet..

i pray for you too..you have gone through a lot already..inshAllah you will be rewarded for your patience

*hugss*

 

[khan82]

hi guys im back from pakistan after visiting my hubby.. it was a short trip lasted for only 10-11 days but im now missing my hubby like crazy!!!

i am devastated ever since i came back..and kept crying throughout the loong flight..
it seems everyone on this forum is depressed tooo..i pray that we all get the good news very sooon inshAllah

mahmed did u get ur caips yet?? its going to be a month since u applied for them right ?

ok so while i was there, my hubby emailed the embassy and the reply we got was

"Your application is currently in process and is in queue for review by a decision making officer. Information provided has been noted."

it's really hurting when we leave back so short time any ways May Allah help all of us inshallah

 

[saggit19]

I wish we could console you but hope is the only choice we have in given circumstances, In my humble opinion when it is in que for Decision Making Officer it means that local staff have already done their part in terms of evaluating the relationship, security clearance must have been done and Immigration Officer makes a decision to call for interview or to waive it, I guess it takes from 2-3 months for IO to look at the file since there are only few of them left working there. May God help you get an interview waiver Inshallah, also you may like to send the copies of boarding passes and details of trip such as pics, receipts from dine outs etc before the decision making officer reviews your file. Good luck

the fact that you took the time to reply to my post and offer advice is more than enough for me.. thanks for that.

yes we have kept a record of all boarding passes, receipts pics etcs and my hubby will inshAllah send out everything by the end of this week..

 

[saggit19]

it's really hurting when we leave back so short time any ways May Allah help all of us inshallah

inshAllah..we will all see good times with our spouses very soon. meri dua main aap sab shaamil hain

 

[wish he was here]

I know what you mean I am also a happy person and now everyone is telling me omg why you look so yellow and sick? Thesedays my thoughts are occupied with my husband and I do so much dua that ALlah gives us PPR really soon inshAllah. Yesterday my dad sat me down and told me I am making myself sick so I should stop being so stressed but it's really hard not to think about your loved one halfway across the world.

So true. My brother said to me that I'm spreading myself too thin. I'm always tired, physically and mentally. I wait all day to see him, my husband, we talk for an hour or so and then he has to go to sleep and I become very sad again. I try to stay busy so I don't think about my husband, but even when I am busy, I still think about him. I, however, have not been sleeping well also for the same reason, stress. This cycle repeats daily, this sucks.

I continue to pray that this processing time shortens for all of us and the people to come. Situation in Pakistan get better, so our family there are safe and get to enjoy life there too. Inshallah soon we'll start hearing good news.

Hope and faith.

 

[zohal]

hey ppl this all makes us crazy, why they doing this to us? I fight with everyone with my friends, husband, family, even with my best friend :-\ :-\ :-\

 

[ONE 2 KA 4]

By reading all these sad feeling comments from various wifes I think I am lucky one as my Jatti never complain in serious words infact give me the encourgment when some time I go down than she said " Sohniya kioun chop ay kioun odas ay, tere oper sadke mey so so dafa jawa, tenu heer wala nakhra dekawa chalo ub smile kre" thats it and than the tense is over for me ;D No wonder case is in 15 months and still we have little bit more pateint left over.

 

[UOC]

WOW.........May ALLAH keep increasing the love between you two. My wife is also same, and I sometime feel that our wives are more strong then us.

By reading all these sad feeling comments from various wifes I think I am lucky one as my Jatti never complain in serious words infact give me the encourgment when some time I go down than she said " Sohniya kioun chop ay kioun odas ay, tere oper sadke mey so so dafa jawa, tenu heer wala nakhra dekawa chalo ub smile kre" thats it and than the tense is over for me ;D

 

[ONE 2 KA 4]

I think wifes need more love & care from husbands and its up to the husband how strong does he make his wife. If as a husband you talk too much about love and missing thing than wifes will go crazy more than husband and both will ended up in a sad mood.

Keep the things balance. Talk about love but talk more about ider oder ki baatein & joke untill the case is in process.

 

[mahmed17]

yes Alhamdollilah i had a really nice time..my husband did everything possible to make me happy and relaxed..but now i am missing him sooo much ... waking up in the middle of the night and not finding him beside me is the worst part.

inshAllah dear everything will work out for you..i have a feeling that the pics and updates you have sent to chc after your recent trip to pakistan has turned your case around..
i remember someone on this or the other forum said that caips take around 30-40 days so don't panic if you don't receive them yet..

i pray for you too..you have gone through a lot already..inshAllah you will be rewarded for your patience

*hugss*

thank you...it means so much to have duas from you, I really hope by visiting him it has changed whatever doubt they had all we can do is sit back and wait. I know it is even hard for me now to sleep sometimes i wake in the middle of the night and get confused about my whereabouts and why is hubby not there lol inshAllah everything will work out

 

[mahmed17]

By reading all these sad feeling comments from various wifes I think I am lucky one as my Jatti never complain in serious words infact give me the encourgment when some time I go down than she said " Sohniya kioun chop ay kioun odas ay, tere oper sadke mey so so dafa jawa, tenu heer wala nakhra dekawa chalo ub smile kre" thats it and than the tense is over for me ;D No wonder case is in 15 months and still we are have little bit more pateint left over.

lol that's so sweet...wives are smart I never let my husband know that I am upset about this I always laugh and joke with him because I know if he thinks I am upset even though he won't show it but it will upset him so I always am strong around him but when I am on this forum I get to vent and let out all the sad feelings so that I can be refreshed for a while LOL and it is true wives do need their husbands to keep them strong just as husbands need their wives to do the same.

 

[mahmed17]

So true. My brother said to me that I'm spreading myself too thin. I'm always tired, physically and mentally. I wait all day to see him, my husband, we talk for an hour or so and then he has to go to sleep and I become very sad again. I try to stay busy so I don't think about my husband, but even when I am busy, I still think about him. I, however, have not been sleeping well also for the same reason, stress. This cycle repeats daily, this sucks.

I continue to pray that this processing time shortens for all of us and the people to come. Situation in Pakistan get better, so our family there are safe and get to enjoy life there too. Inshallah soon we'll start hearing good news.

Hope and faith.

Aww I know how you feel...see today I called him and he was busy and said I should call him back but he didn't answer now i'm going to be going crazy until 11 pm when I will speak to him : lol it's kind of like you make a routine and when it changes then everything gets screwed up. Anyway try not to make yourself sick and worry too much just keep doing dua and with every namaz just talk to ALlah (swt) and ask Him for help inshAllah you will see a difference and if nothing else you will at least get some peace of mind

 

[UOC]

So no good news for this week.

 

[saggit19]

So no good news for this week.

dont worry ..have faith.. the week has just started..we might get good news tomorrow .. inshAllah