Dont really understand how the hell bloody they are operating and what they want from public. FNA sister they also have a rukhsati objection on my case and think relation is not genuine. I am losing my temprature after reading your story now.
"Marriage is not considered genuine" peoples provided you all the possible proof they can provide or can make available being stay apart. What "censord word" they need and how they want that proof to be provided to their "censord word"
As an employed person, Peoples cannt afford to quite the job and stay there for 16 months to proof you the relation. Honestly speaking peoples need more job security & saving feature after married as to start the new life. PIA is not run by Chachu "Sosir" who operate on tax payers money and will provide the free flight. Further you will not issue the visa untill peoples return back and provide you the proof meaning another delay for 3 months. On the other hand as an student peoples want to finish the study fast to get a job & to start the new family life easly.
Why dont you bloody issue the visit/temporary visa so that spouse can arrive for a short period of time that will help your dirty mind to clear the fact about the relation as you can better judge the relationship.
Peoples cannt go either way and get stuck in the middle. Enough is enough.