You are right .......and may Allah Help durram to get reunite with his wife and Allah remove all these problems from his life and Allah bless all spouses in peace and love with each other............how ever I know long distance relationships are a bit hard ,but if you love each other and if you have understanding no one can break your life up and down is apart of life ,but we should take care of each other in any stage .......Mashallah I know my husband from last 10 years and it has been 2 years since our married ,but every day pass love and respect increase in our relation Mashallah coz we compromise ........ I just say compromise is the best thing to keep ur relation strong and happy