Marlena:
1st of all when the embassy asks for the family ikhraj kaid, they mean u and ur family, ur mum and dad and siblings,this serves as a proof that ur single, ur not requierd to provide a ikhraj kaid for u and ur husband coz ur still not "on his name"
now for someone to get u the ikhraj qayd, its either ur direct family or someone u authorize, ur husband cant since ur not registerd as his wife, so if u have no DIRECT realtives in lebanon u shud do a power of attorny at the lebanese embassy, a full one will coast 50$ plus 10$ for registration at the embassy.
now i dont know if ur lebanese by origin or not, if ur registerd in lebanon or not, IF in ur birth certificate its mentioned ur parents are canadian and not lebanese, and IF ur parents did not register u in lebnaon(or thru the embassy) then ur marriage registration is VERY easy and will take 2-3 weeks.
and conerning the visa, canadian passports are allowed to stay in lebanon for one full month without a visa and for free, if u wish to stay more u can go to the nearest general security and have them renew it for another month, but if ur originally lebanese u shud provide a lebanese ID card(hawyie) or ikhraj kaid, and then they will not set a limit for ur residence permit in lebanon, if u font have the ikhraj kayd, u can enter as a canadian and then in lebanon go to the vital statistics branch in ur region and get an ikhraj qayd(or thru a mokhtar) and then u go to the security general and they will cancel the residence of one month and replace it with an open,endless residence.
if u have any question or if i havent answerd on something u asked(coz iam in a hurry) ask them ow am reasy.
ROTITA: STOP WORRYING!!!! U WILL GET UR VISA!!! DONT WAIT ON WHEN THEY OPEN AND WHEN THEY CLOSE AND STOP CHECKING UR EMAIL MORE THAN ONCE PER DAY ITS NO BIG DEAL. AND DONT EVEN THINK OF EMAILING THE EMBASSY THEY WILL HATE U IF DO