AAAAAARRRRRRGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!

[boyee6576]

Yah I dont get it either iarblue. I dont know what to think, CIC says it was accepted by Delhi and the MPs office said they found out that its not there yet. How can there be such a difference? To be accepted I would think someone would have to sign something to prove it was accepted. I am thinking I will call CIC and see if there is something different. I just wished there were straight answers but there doesnt seem to be any. Likely my file is there collecting dust and the IO is eating doughnuts and useing my file as a coast for her coffee mug. I call CIC call centre and they said it will take a couple of weeks for them to open the file. I talk to the MPs office they say ok call back in two weeks and we will see where things are at. THis is NUTS!!!!AAAAAGGGGGHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!.. sigh, deep breath... Im ok

 

[sogwap]

Yes..... AAAAAARRRRRRGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!

Don't get me started. I've been here over 9 months to marry my new Canadian bride as a "visitor", No winking from me, as it is very frustrating.... I've been waiting for the FBI report for over six months now, as my first set of prints were rejected.

I better quit now as the story does not get better.... But I'm still here (in Canada) hoping for the situation to improve.

 

[boyee6576]

so sorry to hear that sogwap.

I think another group hug is needed.

 

[journeyman]

I agree with AAAAAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!! Even a few months seems way too long some days.

BTW Allison, I am also in Mississauga.

Take care all.

 

[twinsmama]

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHH :'( :'( :'( :'( Its 4 months today and nothing new.I went to the Post Office today hoping I might get some kind of letter but nothing.I miss my boo, :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(

 

[heatherusa]

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHH :'( :'( :'( :'( Its 4 months today and nothing new.I went to the Post Office today hoping I might get some kind of letter but nothing.I miss my boo, :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(

Awww that sounds so sad. I feel as though I am truly lucky that I have the luxury of living with my spouse as we apply . My biggest fear is that I have to leave to get to Canada so my daughter can start school in Sept and my husband is turned away at the border.... that will break my heart. I think that being able to just scream, no matter what stage we are in... is just a necessary fact of life... and makes us reset and become sane again.

Good luck TM!

 

[mahmed17]

lol well count me in on the ARGHSSSSSSSSS then! We got married last year in May and application was mailed in July. Islamabad started processing September 12th and still no news of them making any moves anytime soon (i hope i am wrong) my hubbys medical expires this month which makes me want to double ARGHHHHHHH and i can't go to see him unless i want to mortgage the house lol can't dish out 1600 right now to go there

 

[Arbol]

My first post on this forum. Just had to join the venting thread people. Thanks for saying it aloud.... AAARGH sounds about right. So sick and tired of waiting... ours is inland and I know I'm lucky as I've been able to stay with my partner but I still feel like a hollow trunk without any rights to anything, without the possibility to travel or work. This process has peeled off a quite a few layers of self-esteem. But still, like I said my thoughts are with all of you who are apart from your loved ones. Been there and it is painful. There's not much anyone can say to take that feeling away as a person just feels incomplete without the other half. But that said, the best of luck to all of you. Don't give up.

 

[twinsmama]

thanks heatherusa,
Yess you are very lucky to have you babes by you side cherish every moment 8)
My husband cries a lot he missed their first tooth,their first steps their first birthday and more,,,,,
I am still at the beginning of this process AAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHH

 

[heatherusa]

OK, I am back in FRUSTRATED mode... I realize that it hasnt been that long and that I should be patient, but, seriously, Buffalo... WHY HAVE YOU FORSAKEN ME... hee hee... ok, I am better now... this is going to be the week it all happens.... (knock on wood).

 

[bobshynoswife]

heather - I love the last line of your signature! I hope you hear back from Buffalo ASAP, and as for now, enjoy your time with your husband and the summer weather. It will be over before you know it!

 

[lynw]

No aaargh here but knees knocking and nightmares - in two days I am heading to visit my partner in Canada - will they let me in? Will I be lucky and get a sweet understanding immigration officer? Or one with marital problems and toothache? Holding my breath for the next 48 hours or so.

Group hug indeed!

 

[sbwv09]

Buffalo is frustrating me too.. we could at least get a change to 'in process', right? Grr.......................................................................................

 

[Kess]

No aaargh here but knees knocking and nightmares - in two days I am heading to visit my partner in Canada - will they let me in? Will I be lucky and get a sweet understanding immigration officer? Or one with marital problems and toothache? Holding my breath for the next 48 hours or so.

Group hug indeed!

I know the stress. We are still waiting on the FBI so haven't even submitted our application yet. Hubby is coming to visit me for 6 days starting Wednesday. His first time flying up since the wedding. Everyone keeps asking me how married life is... they seem confused when I respond "lonely".

 

[bobshynoswife]

Buffalo is frustrating me too.. we could at least get a change to 'in process', right? Grr.......................................................................................

Hoping for good news for you soon!!