AAAAAARRRRRRGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!

[bobshynoswife]

I know the stress. We are still waiting on the FBI so haven't even submitted our application yet. Hubby is coming to visit me for 6 days starting Wednesday. His first time flying up since the wedding. Everyone keeps asking me how married life is... they seem confused when I respond "lonely".

I know how you feel Kess! I think I should start a club called "The Single Wives" for all of us who are married but are still on our own.

Enjoy your visit with your husband!

 

[Mrs. Turan]

Oh it is so hard waiting. I can completely relate to screaming AAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRGGGGGGGHHHHHHH! The decision was made on July 1st and the letter is supposedly in the mail. Well...it's the 12th now and still no word. Everyday people ask me when is your husband coming? Have you heard word? I have to keep saying no. My husband is really angry about the waiting too. It's hard sometimes to talk when we're both so worried. So we just talk about silly stuff and nothing serious. But when I gotta go to work, he just doesn't want to let me go, and I don't want to go either
Why couldn't they just phone or e-mail. At least it would be good to know the results one way or another. This feels really cruel what they are doing. Maybe its bad news, but at least I could start planning for it. Or if it's good news I can start preparing for that. :'(

 

[Dayanara]

I know the stress. We are still waiting on the FBI so haven't even submitted our application yet. Hubby is coming to visit me for 6 days starting Wednesday. His first time flying up since the wedding. Everyone keeps asking me how married life is... they seem confused when I respond "lonely".

I always respond "No different than dating" and then I get the response "Well you have the perfect marriage." Bah! I hate it when they say that, if they only knew what it was like to be apart from the one you love like this.

 

[heatherusa]

Just felt like I needed to scream again. This process is SO frustrating

 

[ipskang]

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!



Its very frustrating at last step when you have send passport and just waiting for Visa!!!

 

[boyee6576]

Im trying to stay positive. I am just waiting for them to request a new medical and delay things even longer. they started reprocessing us in June sent all the docs requested in before the deadline which is today by the way. Still no medical request. Its been 18 months of hell. I am really tired of it. This process can not get over with quick enough

 

[sbwv09]

Boyee, you make our frustration seem like nothing.. I really hope and pray that you are finish with this all very soon.

 

[boyee6576]

there are many that are worse off then me. I am just one among many, that seem to be paddling that immigration boat with a spoon

 

[SaugaBoss]

lol @ everyone and hopefulllllly this nightmare will end soon for all of us

i might just go up in a couple weeks and wait it out in canada but sux not being able to work!!!!

 

[sogwap]

I've been here in Ontario for almost one year, over eight months waiting for the FBI report. And like everyone else the waiting gets unbearable. For the most part I look, talk and act like one of the locals. However at times I feel so out of place, even at home with my New Canadian bride. My American family and friends pretty much get it as you are in a foreign country and are just a visitor. However the Canadians don't seem to get it. :-\

For the most part it is my own fault because I (ignorantly) did not realize how difficult it would be just to have legal status to work. Several months ago my (new Canadian) wife told me I need to get job. Do anything, even illegal (under the table). We are now separated. For the past six months I've been tempted to go back to the States (by myself) until immigration and a job offer are in hand here. I fear though that I would not come back and/or the loneliness that in part caused me to move here would be too much to bear.

 

[Kess]

lol @ everyone and hopefulllllly this nightmare will end soon for all of us

i might just go up in a couple weeks and wait it out in canada but sux not being able to work!!!!

I think I have my husband convinced to wait out the process up here in Canada with me but he's not quite ready to leave his home (trying to save money and tie things up down there). Right now hoping for end of November.

Funny to see this thread pop back up

 

[galmxcan]

Hi all...Im new to this thread.
I´ve had so many times were I just wanna scream so loud AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRGGGGHHHH!!!!...also mix feelings such as crying/sad and being angry at the same time...all this waiting and being apart of my love its so frustrating!!!

These past days has been a little better since we got the sponsorship approval and the applications has also arrived to the VO..so the ARGH!! has turned into YAY!!!! ....at least for now since there´s more waiting ahead...

Im attending this class at the gym called "body combat" > cardio workout that involves karate, boxing, tai chi, etc...There I can strike, punch, kick and get to yell a lot...hihi its so good I can leave some of the frustrations there...plus you burn more calories every time you scream, I totally recommend it.

 

[boyee6576]

I am really sad today, its our second wedding anniversary and again I am alone. All I feel like doing is crying. I was hoping that we would have been together this year but that didnt happen. I know I am feeling sorry for myself but today I just cant seem to hold it together. :'(

 

[sbwv09]

Chin up, boyee.. you're almost at the finish line! You have a good and strong marriage to celebrate, even though you are apart. Many many people don't have that with their spouse even when they have always been in the same place.

I've been praying for you

 

[boyee6576]

Thats very sweet of you :-* God bless your heart. I know better than to feel like this. Its not much longer and he will be here. I guess we all get a little sentimental over things like this. Your right. Finally, I have a good marriage and for that I am truely thankful. My last marriage I forgot our anniversary most of the time. LOL

Thanks for the pick me up. Sometimes we just need a little reminder hugs