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Thanks Halfmoon I know everyone goes through something and have their own batch of issues. It just seems overwhelming when its a main focus in your life. But good things come to those who work at it and want it. We shall see. Hubby will know where I stand and how I feel about him ignoring...

Well we shall see if your advice works. I am tired of always being the one to cave and give in because I hate fighting over the distance. (And I am always the one to call because of calling rates) But enough is enough. And let's just say I am not going through another one-sided marriage...

Thank you for the advice and you are right. The problem (which I make into a bigger problem than it is) is that I let him get away with this. I fear the bigger problems, but you are right if he can't give me 5 minutes a day even when he is mad, hes not as committed to this and me as I thought...

Sounds like a great Sunday. I wish i could indulge in something similar! Have a great night!

Should have stated i do and have called. Some of the time i cant get through and sometime there is no answer. I have also messaged him with no reaponse. get the feeling he wants space but doesnt tell me, just takes it. Wondering if there is a better way to handle this... Im a sensible...

Ok i need some advice ladies and gentlemen. Im tired of the network excuse and my man seems to be testing me more than usual. Any suggestions on how to not be frustrated when he says he is gonna call but doesnt? Ive tried everything i can think of, being sympathic about networks and being...

Wow what a night to miss ladies!

I agree with this!!! Go celebrate and know that you will be re-united with your partner sooner than later!!!

Perfect pre-trip routine!! Funny the muscles we forget about when we are apart!

Hi Ladies! Hope one and all is enjoying a lovely saturday... Except when its cold! I wish my timeline was 16 months... Im hoping it doesnt take the full 27 months or i will either go crazy or move back to Africa!! Thanks for the laughs ladies!!

Come on we are not all crazy rednecks out here! Some of us have good reason for the boots, hat and plaid!! Obviously i missed you all tonight... and found my new entertainment when im missing the hubby!! Thank you ladies!

Ok.. your husband wins!!! I try telling him we will talk at night his time, but things keep popping up and I get strange looks when I am on the phone in the hallway! Then when I say lets talk late at night his time, he sleeps through the calls. But I seem to be a sucker because I WANT to talk...

I agree. I have a nine hour time difference and it can be overly frustrating somedays. I cant count the number of days where i start at 2am just to talk to my hubby before work. I just keep remindong myself i love him amd that someday soon it will all be over!! The next arguement will be for...

Like you i have had my share of silly arguments with my husband. Some seem outright ridiculous after the fact. Its normal in my world.. and then again im the kind who overthinks everything.

Think of the story for your grandchildren about your wedding day! Mine was an hour at the district commissioners office being sent up and down stairs to all different offices before finally spending twenty minutes with the district commissioner being grilled about ehy we should get married...

Ok... Now Halfmoon im jealous... sounds like your hubby is definitely your prince. Im.waiting for our traditional Malawian wedding as my husband and I registered because he coulsnt bare to lose me to any of those men back in Canada. Im hoping for the upcoming wedding it will be similar to your...

Its really quiet here on the Pretoria thread.. are there any other threads for those of us going through Pretoria that are up to date? Or is the number just that small on here??? I have joined the waiting game and have enjoyed following the thread to see how Pretoria has been going at least...

Great advice and I can say I agree. The scams do exist, and once you have been hurt you are always that little too cautious (at least I was) but when you realize someone actually loves you for you and is not for their own personal gain, it can be great. I know my current husband went through...

Thank you R151NG5UN. I have to say the support in this forum and now this thread is really amazing.. definitely the things that help especially over the long stretches! Definitely glad I stumbled upon it while I was preparing my application, though like you there are definitely things I missed!

Good recommendation. It is a movie I think we all can relate to!