The immigration process is extremly stressful. I just cant comprehend the intent to immigrate. It would be like asking someone why are you in a restaurant, do you really.want to eat. Had someone told me they would ask for adr I would of expected possible relationship long before intent. But god has laid this burden on me. Now its game six and Im up 3-2 going home. Either I close the deal or we head to game seven and them the balls in their court!
Be less dramatic. Yes, it is stressful at times, but adding to it does not help - and it's a long process. Not just immigration formalities but actually moving and settling in Canada, too - you have a long road ahead of you. Probably a longer and harder one for your spouse - keep that in mind - I mean in terms of the effect all of this is having on her.
Several here have tried to explain the issue with 'intent to immigrate.' A lot of people have used the (relatively generous) provisions not to move and settle in Canada, but just to have a back-up. They literally do not intend to move. If you want to use your restaurant example, it's more like the problem a coffeeshop faces with people showing up with their computers for wifi access and getting upset after a few hours when they're asked to actually buy something. Not a perfect analogy but you get the point - not everyone in a restaurant actually DOES want to eat and spend money.
And if you still don't get the point, listen to others when they say it's a real issue. No-one here is trying to mislead you (even if there might be disagreement about some aspects).
You're not being attacked when asked to show some evidence. The people doing their jobs are doing just that - as they (in terms of government and they as employees) are REQUIRED to do by law. (Yes, there are specific requirements in the law about this)
There's no reason to imagine problems about what government wants for proof of your relationship. There is NO (none, zero, nada, bupkus, zilch) evidence there is doubt about your relationship. They asked for a proper (official) copy of your marriage certificate. It sounds like getting upset when someone asks to see your passport - "what, you don't believe I'm a citizen??????? You don't believe I am who I say I am? What is this, nazi germany?".
Just chill out.
Again, not an attack: you may be calm in other circumstances but not in this one. You've ignored repeated suggestions to calm down, slow down, think, consider, revise, read, and figure out what the people (yes, people) are thinking and what they are required to do. (A bit of empahty wouldn't hurt, they're not monsters)
This would also help with reading and understanding what people are saying here. On the one hand, you keep claiming/complaining that these government requests are costing you money - and then also saying you don't care about money (and so you quit your job in one day). Those are, ummm, kind of contradictory? I realize it's the stress talking, but you're getting offended at comments that are actually pretty neutral.
It sounds like you haven't actually sent the response to the document request yet. Read again what I and others have suggested - go back and look at what you've written and collected carefully before you send.
You can by the way cut down what you have prepared and include in your explanation/cover letter or whatever language to effect that eg "I can also provide you with other information such as the arrangements I've made to transport my cats" etc. I.e. open the door to having more information if they think needed.
By the way, you should order your GCMS notes - as soon as practical. That will help you understand whether there are actually any concerns about your relationship.
Which, by the way, is related to another point: you keep saying you will appeal and - well, I don't understand your point here. When the time comes, you should decide to appeal or not based on whichever approach fits your needs better. If an appeal is the only way, fine - you have that option, but appeals are long, painful and even more risky. (Some applicants don't have any choice so that is what they need to do)
Get your gcms notes. If your current file evaluation has no language expressing doubts about your relationship, in a future application, it would be unlikely to come up (assuming no significant changes).
Down the road, if re-applying (for example after you return to Canada because they don't accept your intent to immigrate, no matter how unlikely that is) is faster, less costly and more efficient - then you should forget about an appeal and just re-apply. A good lawyer will tell you this, which approach gets you what you want, faster; a bad lawyer will be happy to appeal for you because it's more money for them. From the government side, they don't care - they have to let you appeal - and no, the government won't 'learn anything' from letting you appeal and losing, they don't have any choice (by law). At most, you would be a footnote on page 28 in a five-year data review where some analyst notes that 'some fixed percentage of applicants will appeal out of spite whatever happens and no matter how illogical appealing is compared to re-applying.'
My point is, your threats now to appeal are completely meaningless - obviously just out of frustration (which I understand) - and irrelevant.
(I speak from some experience in that I've had to tell bosses that their own emotions and desire for 'justice' were leading to worse results and that going to court was last resort; they were less calm and rational than they thought. Not exactly the same of course but I think you get my point. And I've made the same mistake myself...)