Huxley1234 said:
Hi again - OP here...
There has been lots of helpful answers, and lots of very useful stories. Thank you. But...
I still feel most of the comments have avoided the actual question. Let us put aside our feelings for a second, and the hard advice to not do something illegal, and just focus on the question. What are the actual risks of getting caught - and how does the government actually find out?
For instance, will they be able to access her bank account info without permission, or being told it even exists?
The actual risk is a hard question to answer,we thought there was no risk for some time, he was able to live like a normal canadian for the most part, we had almost forgotten that there was a risk till that faithful day. As other posters have said the government has many ways of tracking these things down, the do offer cash rewards for people to report illegals. It could be family, a close friend, co worker, you never know what peoples true feelings of working illegally are so technically you are always at risk. My hubby was completely under the radar, no bank accounts or any other ties financially or otherwise that would show up, apparently this is why it took them so long to catch up to him, they had also been monitoring his facebook for almost year, we had no idea, it wasnt till he posted our address for a BBQ that they showed up. So you may think you are in the clear as we did but meanwhile an investigation is under way. Once they have a suspicion or know about her they can access anything they need to as this is considered a security threat to the country, they have access to everything, like i said before, they even knew everything about me, where I worked, how much i made, my divorce status, my child. Your risks are that she will be be permantly banned from Canada and your sponsorship will be cancelled and she will not be aloud to apply again, the minimum risk is a one year ban but let me tell you we had to fight tooth and nail not to have him permantly banned and it cost alot in legal fee's, bonds to have him released and major stress. When all was said and done he spent 7 days in jail and 16 hours with me and my daughter before we had to turn him over to CBSA to get the bond money back and send him back home and now we are apart. Both of us agree that if we had to do all this again, we would have contacted a lawyer asap and made it right. All I can say is please learn from our mistakes and do not put yourselves through this, it is really not worth it in the long run. Also, ask yourself and your partner, is it worth the stress for her, to live that way, its not easy, you are literally a fugative, it will put strain on your relationship over time. Obviously I am not judging you on your decision as we made the same one but we learned the hard way, ultimately its up to you and your partner, once you understand the risks involve, make the best decision for yourselves, as said before the risks vs reward.