Try not to get upset and for goodness sake don't stop posting just because someone doesn't like what you have to say. I need you all to respond to my questions whether I like the answer or not, or whether I care to admit that your right or not. You keep me sane through all this. Immigration is such a scary process and many people are away from their love ones for long periods of time. Fear does some pretty crazy things to people.
Everyone deals with the stress from this process differently, but it mostly comes down to one thing, fear. When people are afraid some people get angry, some say terrible things to one another, others just rant, while some spend excessive amounts of time researching or responding to forums, some people ease their anxiety by helping others on forums, and others just need a place to fight with people because they don't know how to deal with these intense feelings. Some responses are more socially appropriate than others yes, but keep in mind that we don't know their whole story. In the end we are all trying to make sense of a terribly unfair, subjective and confusing process.
