@ Onemoretime - thank you very much! I assumed there would be a problem with my timeline, because I entered Canada as a visitor (got my stamp for a 6 month stay) and we signed a lease, but then I got a job, applied for a permit, went back to Poland for 2 weeks, got the permit, came back, and entered Canada as a TR with a WP in early November, I guess I assumed that would be somehow counted as the beginning, but what you're saying is logical and sounds good!
We will definitely apply Outland (I can stay in Canada if I have legal status throughout the process, correct?). the letters will not be a problem, we've been an item for much longer than the common-law in Canada
(he moved back to Canada two years ago). It's a relief to hear the bank account is an additional, we have a similar situation with rent (he is paying it through checks, so there are no bills for that) and with electricty bills, because Hydro only added me to the bills later, so we will not have full 12 bills for each month... We do, however, have lots of furniture that we bought together, lots of mail that we got for both of us for the same address, and lots and lots of pictures, etc
but, I will have a look at IEC, thanks for that! Just to clarify, though, isn't there some kind of a rule for IEC that after that year of IEC is over you have to leave Canada for 2 years or so? (I don't really know much about IEC, admittedly)