Thank you so much for all of you, you are so nice, I am pleased to be the part of this group.
I've been thinking about this for a long long time, since the beginning of fall and each and every day I got closer to this decision. There was no day when we did not end up arguing... The reason was mainly that he wanted me to talk and sit beside skype or facetime for hours a day.... And could not understand that I am a mother and I need to be with my children and not leave them playing all on the floor.... Right from the beginning when they were only one and a half years old... I felt guilty but I stayed to talk so I got impatient about everything he said what because he was keeping me up from my job... Keeping me away from my children... And everything else was just added to it. Jealousy , misunderstandings , the long distance, all the worries about the immigration process... This all brought a very bad side off his out and the same for me...
The father of my twins heard us fighting and saw that nothing is good anymore and he was frightened to let the kids go so he told me that he will never let the children go out on the country, be depended on him. He was right....
I told this to Julius and his reaction was scary, accused me that we've been lying to him all along etc....
So basically I thought it through and I don't feel sad about staying here...
Thats all... I wrote this to you because I think there would be people reading these posts someday and maybe learn how not to do it
I wish you all the bests and quick processes! I will come online once in a while
Csilla
