VIENNA OFFICE

[Avissa]

Hi Avissa, thank you for your understanding words.
I passed that certain stage, so I do want to get divorced.
Our marriage is not recognized in Hungary, only in BC. So I don't know where to go or how to start it.
Or do I have to wait until he goes in and applies for divorce? i hope not...
Wishing you the bests!

in that case then I think you could get a divorce through the Canadian embassy

 

[Hungary]

in that case then I think you could get a divorce through the Canadian embassy

Oooh Avissa, you are a genius why didn't I think of that? Hm... )
I will contact them. Thank you. I hope he will do the paperwork by himself, and I don't have to do it from here.

 

[nada3]

Dear Csilla,
I am so sorry to hear about this. It must be a very difficult time for you. I hope you will find the way to finalize the divorce and get a fresh start in your life. I wish you all the best.

 

[europe]

Oooh Avissa, you are a genius why didn't I think of that? Hm... )
I will contact them. Thank you. I hope he will do the paperwork by himself, and I don't have to do it from here.

Hungary my dear friend , i wish you all the best , if you think that is the right decisions better do it in the begginigm ,t ahn to come here and your life to b miserable without nobody ,
as per divorce you guys have to coctact Canadian Embassy, and they will tell you what to do , and maybe they will send you some documentations to sign ,
How 2 lottle adorable twins doing

 

[Toronto ASAP]

Hi everybody I am sorry I didn't come online for a long while now, i've been busy and really upset about my own life. Anyways I came to a decision I won't go to Canada and I want to get divorced now.... My trust and hope and love is completely gone and my heart says don't go.
So does anyone have an idea how can I get divorced? Or where to find the proper information?
I am hoping Julius will be good enough to let me go just simply without an argument... We had more than enough arguments in the last one and a half year...
Can I withdraw my application in Vienna? I will email them at least....

I hope you are all doing well and your process is going further and you will all reach Canada as soon as possible.

Hugs: Csilla

Dear,

I thought about you a lot in the past few months, I was worried that it might come to this, so sorry to read about what happened. I am sure you thought it through and had to make this choice at the end. I hope life will surprise you in a good way after such a difficult decision and I wish you and your kids all the best in your life in Hungary!

 

[Hungary]

Dear,

I thought about you a lot in the past few months, I was worried that it might come to this, so sorry to read about what happened. I am sure you thought it through and had to make this choice at the end. I hope life will surprise you in a good way after such a difficult decision and I wish you and your kids all the best in your life in Hungary!

Thank you so much for all of you, you are so nice, I am pleased to be the part of this group.
I've been thinking about this for a long long time, since the beginning of fall and each and every day I got closer to this decision. There was no day when we did not end up arguing... The reason was mainly that he wanted me to talk and sit beside skype or facetime for hours a day.... And could not understand that I am a mother and I need to be with my children and not leave them playing all on the floor.... Right from the beginning when they were only one and a half years old... I felt guilty but I stayed to talk so I got impatient about everything he said what because he was keeping me up from my job... Keeping me away from my children... And everything else was just added to it. Jealousy , misunderstandings , the long distance, all the worries about the immigration process... This all brought a very bad side off his out and the same for me...
The father of my twins heard us fighting and saw that nothing is good anymore and he was frightened to let the kids go so he told me that he will never let the children go out on the country, be depended on him. He was right....
I told this to Julius and his reaction was scary, accused me that we've been lying to him all along etc....
So basically I thought it through and I don't feel sad about staying here...
Thats all... I wrote this to you because I think there would be people reading these posts someday and maybe learn how not to do it

I wish you all the bests and quick processes! I will come online once in a while

Csilla

 

[messenger]

Thank you so much for all of you, you are so nice, I am pleased to be the part of this group.
I've been thinking about this for a long long time, since the beginning of fall and each and every day I got closer to this decision. There was no day when we did not end up arguing... The reason was mainly that he wanted me to talk and sit beside skype or facetime for hours a day.... And could not understand that I am a mother and I need to be with my children and not leave them playing all on the floor.... Right from the beginning when they were only one and a half years old... I felt guilty but I stayed to talk so I got impatient about everything he said what because he was keeping me up from my job... Keeping me away from my children... And everything else was just added to it. Jealousy , misunderstandings , the long distance, all the worries about the immigration process... This all brought a very bad side off his out and the same for me...
The father of my twins heard us fighting and saw that nothing is good anymore and he was frightened to let the kids go so he told me that he will never let the children go out on the country, be depended on him. He was right....
I told this to Julius and his reaction was scary, accused me that we've been lying to him all along etc....
So basically I thought it through and I don't feel sad about staying here...
Thats all... I wrote this to you because I think there would be people reading these posts someday and maybe learn how not to do it

I wish you all the bests and quick processes! I will come online once in a while

Csilla

Dear Csilla

This was an open heart testimony. It takes a brave woman to come up to such decisions. Bravo!
We are friends and you know we will think of you as you are thinking of us!

kiss the sweetie pies for me!

Tom

 

[Milance]

Vienna was sure busy for awhile there...now its quiet again. I hope this is the calm before the storm.

 

[Cvrca]

Vienna was sure busy for awhile there...now its quiet again. I hope this is the calm before the storm.

I hope the same!

 

[chala]

A new petition for revising the processing time of Canada family class (spousal) immigration processing time.

https://www.change.org/en-CA/petitions/citizenship-and-immigration-canada-revise-processing-times-for-spousal-applications

 

[alekgalorini]

hello, i am new to this forum..
I am sponsoring my husband in serbia and was wondering if anyone got their PR that applied in June 2013??

 

[nada3]

hello, i am new to this forum..
I am sponsoring my husband in serbia and was wondering if anyone got their PR that applied in June 2013??

Hi there,
welcome to the forum
The processing times for Vienna have changed to 14 months and although there were a few people that got their COPR's within 6-8 months, most of us here on the forum are in for a wait of 12+ months. I sponsored my husband from Serbia and just got the passport request last week. We have been waiting since Sept 2012. I am not trying to discourage you, but you should be prepared to wait at least till summer.
It's great that you joined here, everyone is very helpful and supportive and will make your wait easier to cope with. We are all in the same boat and know exactly what you are going through. Sooo, be strong and patient..Vienna is very very slow
Good luck.

 

[BumpAhead]

hello, i am new to this forum..
I am sponsoring my husband in serbia and was wondering if anyone got their PR that applied in June 2013??

Welcome

 

[denis_mtrl]

A new petition for revising the processing time of Canada family class (spousal) immigration processing time.

https://www.change.org/en-CA/petitions/citizenship-and-immigration-canada-revise-processing-times-for-spousal-applications

The idea of a petition is good, but if you scroll to the bottom, it has sample letter that will go out,
and it mentions *only* Pakistan, Islamabad applicants. So not inline with the whole text describing
all countries. I think that should be changed

 

[Avissa]

hello, i am new to this forum..
I am sponsoring my husband in serbia and was wondering if anyone got their PR that applied in June 2013??

welcome to the Vienna waiting room hopefully he'll be one of the rare ones that gets it under a year, but just in case you guys should buckle up for a rather long journey