Hi All,
I read a lot of posts from this website and found them really helpful. I've been sponsored by my spouse after typical marriage in India. We maintain genuine relationship through long distance. After marriage her behaviour started changing she become dominant and behaved like this was a forceful marriage for her because of family pressure. Though she process all neccesary documents to CIC and i got a PR in Jan'12.
I landed in canada in Feb'12. We stayed together in her parent house initially for a week and then rented apartment. Then things started getting worse just after couple of weeks. She started shouted, yelling, abuses and try to dominate and control me in all ways. When i complain to her parents and siblings they chose to remain silent. She left me unattended in rental apartment without food and money. She cancelled my driving road test without telling me and started harrasing me all ways. I decided to go back to India. In btw, i recieved my PR card and i flew back.
I had no intention to come back to canada to live with such a person. But my family convinced me to give another shot. After 5 months, i decided to move canada to give another chance to my marriage. But this time i decided not to live in her house. I started staying alone and tried to interact with her. Things were just fine we get along, going here and there. But she did not offer me any financial assitance though i never asked. because i wasn't staying with her. After six months of employment and sustaining on my parents support. I found a job in my own IT profession and its required me to travel to the client site and it was in calgary. She threat me to give a divorce if i take this step and forced me to decline the job offer. But i moved to calgary regardless. We stayed in touch on and off through phone and emails. We filed our taxes together.
After 3 months, i decided to give another shot to our relationship and took another job in Montreal and started traveling every week to toronto. I took a apartment on rent in Brampton. So that we can live together atleast on weekends. She live with her parents and wasnt ready to accept me because i m working in Montreal and this place was rented. Whenever i take initiative we went for small vacation to many places and hangout, celebarte birthdays and anniversaries together. She never called or showed any interest in patching up.
From last 2 years im still traveling every week to toronto incurred $50000 in travelling expense and $12000 in additional rental. I asked her to give me divorce if she doesn't want this, but she always threat me to report CIC on false accusation. Now its been 4 years of On & Off marriage and I have 2 months remaining to apply for citizenship. Recently, i got a letter from CIC that she reported a marriage fraud on me. Now CIC asking me to give them an explanation.
Please advice.
I read a lot of posts from this website and found them really helpful. I've been sponsored by my spouse after typical marriage in India. We maintain genuine relationship through long distance. After marriage her behaviour started changing she become dominant and behaved like this was a forceful marriage for her because of family pressure. Though she process all neccesary documents to CIC and i got a PR in Jan'12.
I landed in canada in Feb'12. We stayed together in her parent house initially for a week and then rented apartment. Then things started getting worse just after couple of weeks. She started shouted, yelling, abuses and try to dominate and control me in all ways. When i complain to her parents and siblings they chose to remain silent. She left me unattended in rental apartment without food and money. She cancelled my driving road test without telling me and started harrasing me all ways. I decided to go back to India. In btw, i recieved my PR card and i flew back.
I had no intention to come back to canada to live with such a person. But my family convinced me to give another shot. After 5 months, i decided to move canada to give another chance to my marriage. But this time i decided not to live in her house. I started staying alone and tried to interact with her. Things were just fine we get along, going here and there. But she did not offer me any financial assitance though i never asked. because i wasn't staying with her. After six months of employment and sustaining on my parents support. I found a job in my own IT profession and its required me to travel to the client site and it was in calgary. She threat me to give a divorce if i take this step and forced me to decline the job offer. But i moved to calgary regardless. We stayed in touch on and off through phone and emails. We filed our taxes together.
After 3 months, i decided to give another shot to our relationship and took another job in Montreal and started traveling every week to toronto. I took a apartment on rent in Brampton. So that we can live together atleast on weekends. She live with her parents and wasnt ready to accept me because i m working in Montreal and this place was rented. Whenever i take initiative we went for small vacation to many places and hangout, celebarte birthdays and anniversaries together. She never called or showed any interest in patching up.
From last 2 years im still traveling every week to toronto incurred $50000 in travelling expense and $12000 in additional rental. I asked her to give me divorce if she doesn't want this, but she always threat me to report CIC on false accusation. Now its been 4 years of On & Off marriage and I have 2 months remaining to apply for citizenship. Recently, i got a letter from CIC that she reported a marriage fraud on me. Now CIC asking me to give them an explanation.
Please advice.
