I've been lurking here for months and I finally signed up for an account to say THANK YOU. As of this morning my boyfriend was approved for MEV and I owe much of our success to this forum. Thank you everyone for their contribution!! To be honest this was such a stressful experience as I was doing 95% of the work, plus I was extremely doubtful because there were just too many potential redflags in his application which made it difficult to make a strong case.
i.e.
- We are in a relationship (we contemplated heavily whether to disclose this, but in the end figured we should be honest)
- he has no $$ so I am paying for the whole trip
- he didn't have a bank account at the time and was only able to provide 2 months bank statements, instead of the usual 3 - 6
- In one of the months I transferred a huge lump sum into his account which we did not provide an explanation for
- The only country he's traveled to is Malaysia which didn't even require a visa, so his travel record is super weak to non-existent.
Despite all these red flags he was still given the green light, only God only knows why. I do think luck played a huge part, but we did also take a lot of time to put together an honest and thorough application which I believe helps.
To those still going through the process with their significant others, please don't give up hope.
The best advice I can give:
- be honest in your application
- emphasize strong ties to your home country as much as possible
- provide as-concrete-as-possible proof that you are only visiting will return at the end of your stay (return tickets, paid travel insurance, detailed plan of activities, etc.)
- Don't request a super long visit. (We asked for 2 weeks.)
If anyone has any questions at all I'm to happy to help
i.e.
- We are in a relationship (we contemplated heavily whether to disclose this, but in the end figured we should be honest)
- he has no $$ so I am paying for the whole trip
- he didn't have a bank account at the time and was only able to provide 2 months bank statements, instead of the usual 3 - 6
- In one of the months I transferred a huge lump sum into his account which we did not provide an explanation for
- The only country he's traveled to is Malaysia which didn't even require a visa, so his travel record is super weak to non-existent.
Despite all these red flags he was still given the green light, only God only knows why. I do think luck played a huge part, but we did also take a lot of time to put together an honest and thorough application which I believe helps.
To those still going through the process with their significant others, please don't give up hope.
The best advice I can give:
- be honest in your application
- emphasize strong ties to your home country as much as possible
- provide as-concrete-as-possible proof that you are only visiting will return at the end of your stay (return tickets, paid travel insurance, detailed plan of activities, etc.)
- Don't request a super long visit. (We asked for 2 weeks.)
If anyone has any questions at all I'm to happy to help