Sauga, I tried the work permit route before applying as conjugal, didn't really work. Never heard back from HRSDC or whatever the abbreviation is.. Hopefully you're paperwork will be finalized soon!
AllisonVSC, I posted a note on facebook, almost like a blog, explaining my situation, what the letters would need look like. I used some of your info and some bits and pieces from the O2 manual. I actually got some great feedback. What happened was nobody was notified that they were tagged, so it was like my post never existed to them. Anyways, I've got about 8 or 9 letters from friends and a few coming from family on both mine and my partners side.
We both are setting aside our Friday to put everything we've collected together. I have got copies of our benefits (dental, vision, extended coverage, etc.) and highlighted the requirements that I do not meet as a reason why I have not been added yet. I've made a list and a reason to all of the things like joint accounts, and insurances that we've planned to add me but not until I can become a resident and licensed driver. Also we collected more photos, ticket stubs, our tenative 5 year plan of action together and what are plans are for children. We've also included a bunch more as in a free write style about our reasons for not wanting to get married, and used examples of people in our family that have been together for numerous (10 plus) years unmarried ,and that we would like to do the same. I've also done up my own personal letter that my partner is going to do as well. There are a few more things that we are going to cover on Friday.