quoted from Kerianne...
Still waiting to get the letter to see exactly what it reads. I'm a littler erked at my "friends" right now too.
Since high school as anybody knows, you lose a lot of contact with people and close friends don't become so close anymore. I lost a couple of close friends when I moved to Canada, and it sucks because the people that would probably provide the best letters of declaration for me don't even talk to me anymore barely. So after posting a thread on facebook asking for letters and statements and having only a few people reply is VERY irritating. I'm not very close with my family, and the ones that I am already added stuff into my initial application. I am stressing out because I feel like I'm not going to have enough to prove the IO otherwise. I hope that he/she will. I am thinking about including this in my letter to the IO dicussing that I have a very small circle of friends and family, and hopefully that will be enough?
Kerianne, I suggest you follow up in a more personal way with your friends regarding those letters of declaration. I'm not sure how you put it on facebook but if it was just in your status it could very well be the case that they assume someone else will come through for you.
When I asked my family members they were very concerned about not knowing what to write and add to that it was a government document so I think they were a bit intimidated. But when I explained the purpose and how important it was given the conjugal class we applied in they understood and were (some still reluctantly) willing to help.
Maybe if you called those one or two close friends you lost when you moved to Canada (a) they would be glad to hear from you and (b) would be willing to write one given that you are required to provide more evidence in order to get your application approved.
What other evidences have you come up with, by the way?