Thank you so much Musikwala for these motivating words. I know once I get it I would be dealing with lot of other tensions ...trying hard to control my mind everyday. I guess it is just the 6 months expectation set by express entry which is causing so much worry and tension because we have put everything in our life " On Hold". I dont think the earlier people ( pre express entry)would have bother so much for 8-9 months AOR because they knew there is no time frame for their application ..so they kept on doing whatever they were doing and not waited like us.Musikwala said:I really feel for you! We've been waiting for 6 and a half months and it feels like an eternity! I cannot imagine what it must be like for you. But let me see if I can say something positive here. Think about it this way... We are all making a major life decision here of moving permanently to another country. And a great country! Possibly the greatest, safest, most immigrant-friendly country on earth! At the end of all this waiting when you get that email, none of this will matter too much because you will be busy with a million things including job search and setting up life in a new country. I'm sure all this pain you are going through now will slip to the back of your mind a few months down the line when you're living in Canada. Generally when we struggle to achieve something and finally achieve it, we are ecstatic and soon forget about the pain we went through. New issues also start cropping up that take our attention now. Really, the only way to make this wait more tolerable is to not give up and be patient because our ideal future is waiting... whenever it arrives.
You are right ..I must stop expecting and counting the days . I know its easier said than done ..but guess that is the only way out . Thanks again for these motivating words ...hope we will meet in Canada soon ;D