Yea I actually emailed him today to find out if he did reach out or not. Oh so I can email them as well, I thought if we put a representative down for the correspondence only that person can reach out. Good to know maybe I might just tell him to hold off if he hasn't and I might just reach out instead.
Yea we didn't wait, I applied like 3 months after so we had wedding photos, plus us going on dinners and what not. I did actually visit her 2 times since, once in July 2014 and once in December 2014. The thing is when they sent me the ADR on June 22, 2014 , I hadn't left yet to meet her but I did attach my airline ticket to show that I am going to visit her, but since then they haven't asked for any communication so I haven't had the chance to send them additional communications, but if they do I have proof for 2 separate trips in which I went. But I hope you are right that its just volume and not anything else..
Btw, my wife lives in Sharjah too