Good evening everyone.
As much as I really hate to add to the length of this Leviathan post, I am compelled to post and seek the sage advice of the experienced posters here. I would have sent a private message to Leon, but I don't have that option available, and it seems like he, and a select number of you, have valuable and almost inside information on the CIC. I have trudged through hundreds of pages of this post, and while some circumstances and questions are similar, none are quite the right fit to answer my questions, and I, like all of you here, want to be sure I get this right the first time.
I will try and give you the highlights to provide some context, and then I ask your opinion on best next steps please.
A few weeks ago, while in Ukraine, I got engaged to an amazing woman and the love of my life. The feelings are reciprocal on her part as well. Naturally, we want to be together as soon as possible, and ultimately, permanently in Canada. My profession does not afford me, both financially and and time-wise, the luxury of making numerous visits to Ukraine in the span of 12 - 18 months, so my fiancée and I need to be prudent in our decision making with regard to her visa application and ultimately, her PR application.
I have heard that Ukraine is high on the CIC radar, and that a TRV can be hard to come by if the CIC suspects that an intimate relationship exists and that the woman may not return home . . . which is what the CIC typically suspects. So, herein lie my questions.
We are in no immediate rush to get married, but have discussed that ideally we will be married within 12 - 18 months (I am 44 and she is 35, and we want to start a family). She wants to spend time with me in Canada before we get married, if the CIC will grant her a TRV. What is the best way to apply for her TRV? Should I declare in my letter of invitation that she is my fiancée, or just identify her as a friend and hope the CIC doesn't presume an intimate relationship (which I believe to be highly unlikely)? Should she indicate in her application that she will take care of some or most of her expenses while in Canada, even if I am going to send her the money to cover the expenses, or is it OK to indicate I will take care of her needs while in Canada? Or, would it even be better if I could find a female friend to invite her to Canada? Does she increase her chances of receiving a TRV if she declares that her intended visit to Canada will be a shorter period than the 6 months permitted (say 1, 2, or 3 months)?
Furthermore, once she's here, should we quickly and quietly get married in Canada (if that's even legal and recognized in both Ukraine and Canada), and then make an inland PR application (along with an OWP), taking advantage of implied status? If we don't get married within the first 6 months of her visa, or within the CIC allotted period of her TRV, what are the odds of her receiving an extension to her TRV? And, please correct me if I am wrong, but I presume I need to purchase her a "throwaway ticket", so as to convince the CIC of her intention to return to Ukraine. Also, what happens with regard to her passport and applications to CIC, considering the fact that her surname will change to mine when we get married?
I honestly see getting married in Canada and applying inland for PR as the best option for us to remain together (provided she is approved in the first place for a TRV), and I am aware that it may take a little longer to be processed than an outland application and that there is no appeal process (should she be declined), and that she must remain in Canada while her application is being processed, but for some reason, this option seems less risky to me, and perhaps it's a misguided sense that if she's here with me, I can "make it all better", or at the very least, that we go through it together and we are there to support one another.
Or, would you recommend we get married in Ukraine and then we apply outland for her PR? The way I see it is that this option keeps us apart the longest amount of time, and it could prove to be more costly if interviews are required and I must travel to Ukraine (with my son sometimes). Much as I would like for her to marry me in her country in front of her family and friends, I have heard that marrying in Ukraine can be a long and tedious process, with much paperwork, unexpected delays, as well as prescribed and lengthy bureaucratic waiting periods for the civil marriage ceremony. In Canada, I believe it's just a matter of booking a Justice of the Peace or registered minister, provided she is permitted to marry me in this fashion and have it legally recognized in Ukraine.
Furthermore, would you recommend I utilize an immigration consultant or lawyer, particularly for the paperwork and translations involved with the PR application? I am a very organized and thorough person, and on some other forums I belong to, most of the men indicate that I could easily complete the paperwork and save the expense (but not all of these men are Canadian, and only a few have knowledge of our CIC processes). However, not that I have money to burn, but I also want to make the process easy for my gal on her end, in case she gets confused by the forms and what exactly is required. An immigration consultant would ensure that my gal knows exactly what to do and that she does everything properly.
As an aside, I did have a free, "off the record" consultation with an immigration recruitment services company today that has significant experience in assisting Ukrainians to come to Canada, primarily for work, but they do have some experience with family PR applications. Their advice was that my fiancée has a 50/50 shot or less at getting a TRV right now, and that I should declare in my letter of invitation that she is my fiancée, as it establishes honesty from the outset, and that we should then consider the outland PR application as being the shortest and likely most successful route . . . though they saw no glaring reason why an inland application would be rejected/declined. I want to trust them, because of their extensive experience, but their advice isn't really what I want to hear, and it kind of runs contradictory to what many of the informed posters here indicate as wholly possible. I even have gentlemen friends on other forums who have had very speedy and very positive immigration experiences with their Ukrainian brides. I really don't know who to believe, but I would like to get the ball rolling soon to reunite me and my gal.
Both my fiancée and I have clean medical histories, and neither of us have criminal records. According to the posted criteria on the CIC website, I cannot foresee any encumberances to prevent us from ultimately being together, other than them potentially questioning the legitimacy of our marriage, given the short engagement, but we are saving and continually gathering a plethora of evidence to indicate the veracity of our relationship.
I really do apologize for the length of my post and the abundance of questions, but I wanted to be as thorough as possible, so as not to gunk up this thread anymore than it already is, and to hopefully negate the need for me to post again, or post repeatedly.
Leon, et al . . . thanks so much for all of your support in this thread. Your commitment to this thread over the years is commendable and very much appreciated.